The William O'Benenson Rehabilitation is great if you or your loved one is ambulatory ( you can walk around or bus around in a wheelchair, eat by yourself, speak). If you need more care than that I don't feel this is the place for you. A lot of people choose Benenson b/c it has an Asian population, the facility is new, and clean... It's more Korean than Chinese, more Mandarin speaking Chinese than Cantonese. I haven't met one true Cantonese speaking staff member. However, the doctor is really Mandarin that can speak some Cantonese (so I hear).
Make sure you see the events calender, I felt it was kind of low key only 2 events per day where other facilities typically have 4 in one day. Also, see if you like how the residents typical protocols for a day. They typically have 1 CNA baby sit them all in the dining room during the day while everyone goes in and out for their therapies. If you want to dine with your loved one or bring their own food, you need to go to one of the sitting areas or back into their own room. Most other facilities has a "cafe" setting where at Benenson, you have the food cart come up and then you get served.
I felt the nursing was good, but I'm not too crazy about the doctor. I've never seen them before. If you leave your loved one there and they don't really speak for themselves and such; I feel that it is critical that you go there sporadically to any nursing home to make sure you are getting the care you are expecting. In addition, you keep an eye on your loved one where if there's something off baseline, it can be immediately addressed. Who else knows better than you about your loved one.
*** For my Asian family readers... I know you can be aggressive and not so passive. I've seen you be aggressive at free events. You even elbow me at most of them. You should fight for what is right and what you want and need. We are the LARGEST population in the WORLD.
What I see is a lot of families who only visit on the weekends (provided you are comfortable with that and your loved one can "take care" of themselves to a certain extent). I would suggest people to go a bit more just to really see the type of care you receive.
I am a firm believer in PREVENTATIVE medicine, where I didn't feel I received here. They let my grandmother sit around getting septic before sending her to the hospital. If anything the doctor should've come immediately a week before when I complained that something was starting to look fishy and did some labs.
In addition to that, during the second admission (b/c you do get bed hold for 14 days after a hospital stay; then you would be automatically discharged). The staff was disorganized where my grandmother was sitting in her own fecal matter for quite some time to the point it was all dried on her. Also, upon request of her belongings, they lost her shoes and custom orthotics (these are typically over $100). To top it all off, after an approval for a dental consult (the previous hospital couldn't get a dental consult). The staff couldn't figure out when the dentist comes into the facility. Where then I had to take on the responsibility myself to fix her problem with her mouth hurting to the point where she was classified "palliative care" and failure to thrive.
Hello people... failure to thrive due to you cannot fix the pain in her mouth or throat preventing them from wanting to THRIVE... Also for Palliative care people... make sure you check with each facility what their own definition of palliative care is. There is such a large spectrum that most facilities define it as "hospice" with more than 6 months to live. If you find the right facility palliative care should be practicing preventative medicine, and if your loved one's time happens to come, then it was their time. But they should not be helping them along to getting to the point of no return, just non-aggressive medicine where you do not end up torturing a person with all these needles and such.
Another thing when shopping for a nursing home. Make sure they know when all their consultants come in and that they are capable of determining if things are "routine" and if there is a priority it can be pushed up to the top of the list. Most of all, even though there are "scheduled" days that consultants come in, if there are emergency situations, the consultant will come in immediately.
Overall, as a family, be active and proactive in managing your loved one's health care. Do not think of nursing homes as day care or long term summer camp. We all have our own lives to live but don't forget about them. In life we all do a full circle being children twice, so as much attention you give your children, you should also give to your elderly (which can also be frustrating at times). We will all be there one day ourselves and just think of how you want to be treated. Also, return to the elderly what they have given to us when we were helpless children ourselves.
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