I think these guys ripped me off, selling me an Ethiopian opal ring that I later learned was extremely sensitive to water/oils and is essentially worthless aside from the gold it's set in for a cool $3000. I made the mistake of not knowing anything about opals before buying my ring on a whim during a wedding anniversary trip. I made several attempts to contact the business for a copy of the GIA report that I can't seem to find (perhaps they never gave it to me, perhaps I misplaced it). GIA reports don't list origin of the gem so I'm not sure it would be very helpful anyway. The first time I called and asked for a copy of the report, told me they'd get it to me in two weeks, but never called me back. I then tried to contact them via their website contact form and they never replied. Since then when I call, no one picks up. I would like to give these guys a chance to make things right and at least provide me with the information they promised me. They have my phone number. Maybe they will see this and reach out? I don't hate my ring, I just hate that they initially fleeced me and are now avoiding me. Yes, it's a jewelry store in an overpriced tourist town but still I expect transparency regarding my purchase. Buyer beware. read more

Well, where do I start? I've been doing business with Peter & Alex for over 30 years. Peter and Alex are most Professional Jewelers I have ever known. They are also the nicest people in the world. They know everybody in the Jewelry business so if they don't have it in stock they can get it for you. Alex is a World Class Bench Jeweler. He has been designing and repairing all types of jewelry for his entire life. Peter is Certified Jeweler with many credits to his name. Together, they make the most incredible "Team Brothers" in the most amazing town in the US. I can't think of a better and more memorable place to purchase a quality piece with memories that will last forever. Especially, if your in need of a Wedding Ring, why would you NOT go to Carmel and meet with Peter and Alex? You will get the best overall experience and a fair price with a lifetime of cleaning and service on your Wedding Ring. Plus, you get to tell everyone you got your ring in Carmel. How Romantic :-) read more

My partner and I are ordered our wedding bands at B & G Jewelers. Alex and Peter are both professional, welcoming and talented with their business. Our rings turned out incredible! Definitely stop by there if you're looking for jewelry or visit when cruising on Ocean Avenue. read more

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Not only was I disappointed by the poor quality of the jewelry, but the staff also had no knowledge of the stones' origins. Even worse, they were outright rude when I asked for clarification. read more

With the many choices for jewelry stores in the area, B and G Jewelers always gets my business. In fact, I have been doing most all of my jewelry purchasing with Peter and Alex for the past thirty years. They are both delighful to work with and quite dedicated to their profession. They carry beautiful and quality pieces at reasonable prices. I have purchased quite a few already made pieces of jewelry and they have also designed and made numerous pieces of exquisitely crafted jewelry for me and my family through the years... Most recently the did a remarkable custom job refashioning two rings from four. I am beyond thrilled with their work. If you're looking for an honorable trustworthy jeweler, I highly recommend B and G Jewelers. They are truly the absolute best! read more

I had an old wedding set reconfigured after a terrible divorce. Oh my goodness, what a beautiful job - simply magnificent! I highly recommend these fantastic jewelers with no reservations, especially Alex. read more

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We upgraded my wedding ring and we are so pleased with the craftsmanship. We have been buying from Peter for years. We highly recommend his jewelry. read more

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I was on vacation and I stopped by B & G jewelers and was not intending to purchase this ruby and diamond bracelet that I saw in the window. Peter asked if I wanted to try it on, and I said yes. I wanted it to have a little more length on the bracelet, which he added a link after I purchased it. Mailed it to my home. I love the bracelet, and I get several compliments on it. It doesn't snag my clothing and it shines very nicely. Now I'm looking for a ruby and diamond ring. I have always enjoyed going into their store, because they are so friendly and have such a nice selection of jewelry. I live four hours away, and I would drive over there if I was to make a purchase for a ruby ring. They are very trustworthy and provide all the paperwork needed for any item that you purchase from them. read more

Sold us counterfeit Cartier estate bracelet! We cannot find the business in Carmel, CA any where. I assume they are out-of-business!! read more

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Custom made rings - and other services --get many compliments always - very king & helpful with our selections and ongoing

I consigned some of my late wife's jewelry to Peter at B&G. Peter did make a sale of the largest of the diamonds, at a very fair price. It was less than he originally had estimated it. But he did a good job of explaining the market value based on the size, clarity and color of the stone. The fact that he could make this deal during this infernal pandemic is impressive to me. Peter, his brother Alex and their father are invariably welcoming and gracious to my wife and me. We plan to do more business with them. PS: Reading some of the one-star reviews below makes me think that either Peter and Alex have split personalities, or perhaps some people are looking for someone on whom to blame their bad attitudes. I recommend those folks take a stroll on magical Carmel Beach, in their bare feet. read more

Peter and Alex, the Owners are an expert team in their industry. As they are a longtime business in Carmel we went to them for my husband's wedding ring and then after my wedding band. Both custom-made pieces by Alex we can't be happier with our jewelry and the detail in which it was made. We have bought many pieces from them over the years and will continue to buy from them and to also look to them for custom made Pieces. The prices are fair, the jewels first class and it's so great to see a local business thrive after many years in our town. From one Carmel business owner to another, I highly recommend them. read more

My wife and I came across B&G while window shopping after hours on Ocean Avenue. While all the jewelry had been removed from the window displays, my wife noted that they had several Lone Cypress sculptures in the store and she's enamored with all things Carmel/Monterey/Pebble Beach. We went back the following day and met Gary. He showed us all of the many variations of the sculpture and told about the artist, his father! It was a fascinating story, even down to how the Jade bases were sourced from nearby Big Sur. He offered us a very nice discount on one of the sculptures, agreed to hold onto it for us so that we didn't have to carry it around, and packed it perfectly for shipping (which we hadn't decided on yet). It's always great to find places where they create a wonderful customer experience and treat you like friends. Oh, their jewelry looked beautiful too ;-) read more

Just got my pieces cleaned again after a short visit to Carmel, I am ever happy with the work they did and I will continue to come back here every time I take my california road trip up and down the coast. read more

On our recent trip to Carmel by the Sea, we stepped into the B&G Jewelry shop. It was just befor 10 and we were the first customers. Immediately I felt very welcomed by Peter, as we told him we were looking for two side bands for my 5 stone anniversary ring. We looked as several "eternity" bands and my eye caught the gorgeous stones in a small round diamond band. It was love at first site for the perfect ring set! It dazzled my cushion stones. Peter was so helpful. Not only did he admire my ring but he knew the jeweler who made it and gave him great complements. That is the sign of a true artist. Holding their peers and competitors in high regard!! The best part of the morning was the Armenian good luck wish of the first customer of the day. Make them happy and the rest of the day is good luck! I am truly blessed with this beautiful new diamond side rings! I will definately go back to Peter and B&G. I already have some plans to redesign some rings and loose stones. Very good luck indeed! read more

My mother and I are browsing tourist. The man who greeted us was very rude. I was viewing a ring until other customers walked in and he dismissed us saying, "Ladies please, I have returning customers that I need to tend to" Well F U too! I couldn't believe it. read more

I'm not sure his name (he was short and older), but my friends and I were looking up directions in front of the store and he came out to berate us for standing in front of the planters. He told us "ladies" to leave and have some respect (not sure what he meant by that since we were just standing out front after visiting the bakery next door) and we felt very disrespected and uncomfortable with the way he had approached us. I don't recommend coming here or even standing out front. read more

My wife and I have been dealing with B&G Jewelry for over 8 years, in that time we have bought 4 or 5 high end bracelets, necklace and rings. Never once have felt taken advantage of. In fact we have been treated with the up most respect, honesty and friendliness. Peter, Alex and their dad are wonderful people. My wife's father was a partner in a jewelry store in El Cerrito and she was taught at a very you age how to look at a piece of jewelry and we have found Peter and Alex to be honest in their assessment of the quality of the pieces we brought. My wife's cousin as a jewelry store close to us, that gives us great deals, but she doesn't have to quality and high end jewelry that Peter has. We have recommended friends and family to Peter and all of them have bought multiple number of items from him. Remember we all drive an hour and forty five minutes to 2 hours to buy jewelry. If you really want a top notch Jeweler then go and visit Peter at B&G Jeweler. read more

I would have to agree with one of the previous reviewer but mine is a bit different. You need 4 things in life...a good physician, good dentist, a good lawyer and a great jeweler! B & G are absolutely the best. They are craftsmen, designers and very creative. They designed and made an anniversary ring for my wife that is just beautiful. This new ring matches a very complex style which was hand crafted 16 years ago. You give them an idea of what you would like with your price range and they will either find what you desire or create if for you. Realistic prices with no upselling or pressure. We will certainly be back for our next anniversary. Very easy to do business with! Many thanks to Peter and Alex for their professionalism. P.S. we drive 60 minutes specifically for them when I am certain there are other jewelers much closer to home. Worth the drive! read more

While I frequently use Yelp, it's rare I have such a great experience with a business that I am compelled to actually write a review about it. I came to B & G Jewelers after getting many recommendations from friends and people in town, and they were all right. Alex and his team have a stunning shop. They are friendly, knowledgeable, and do their work in-house. My boyfriend proposed with a beautiful, 100 year-old antique platinum and diamond ring. We were a little worried it wouldn't be possible to resize it since there are diamonds and intricate details almost 3/4 of the way around the band, but not only was Alex able to bring it down 1 1/2 sizes, he did it in 30 minutes without losing any of the integrity of the ring. We are beyond thrilled with the results and cannot wait to go back and design the wedding band with him using the stones from my mom's old wedding set. read more

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This is my all time favorite jewelry store. Alex is a Master Jeweler and his brother, Peter is a GIA Graduate Gemologist. My husband and I were in the market to purchase engagement and wedding rings. We looked at several stores in Carmel, and luckily found this one. We were greeted by the friendliest people there. They helped us pick out our rings according to what we described. They were patient and understanding. My engagement ring is a vintage ring with a filigree band with a round diamond. It's very delicate and feminine. My husband bought me two wedding bands both with embedded diamonds. They compliment each other and look fabulous. Love the style because my rings don't snag my clothes. We stop in there every six months to have our rings cleaned and the rhodium polished. Every time I walk by their store, I want to buy everything. They have a tasteful window display representing the various pieces of gorgeous jewelry. They have it all! Five Stars Becky L read more

I highly recommend checking this place out before going anywhere else. About 1 1/2 years ago B & G was highly recommended by a friend that bought his wife's wedding set there around 13 years ago. From the minute we walked in we were treated with genuine warmth and hospitality. I love that they have a wide variety of one of a kind vintage and modern pieces. Personally, I like the more one of a kind vintage look. We found the perfect ring within a few minutes. Peter was so thoughtful he even gave us a bottle of champagne to celebrate our engagement. Not sure if this is standard procedure for them or not, but it was a wonderful surprise. read more

In 2005 my husband & I went on a vacation to Carmel. My husband bought me what we believed to be a beautiful first class tanzanite ring. However, the tanzanite rings were at the back of the store, where the lighting was very poor. We paid $4,784.00 for the ring. When we got home I took out the ring, & realized the stone wasn't a deep blue, but a medium blue. We returned on vacation, 2 years later, & the manager refused to give us credit toward purchasing a better stone. He said he would give us wholesale price, which was less than 1/2 of what we'd spent. I was very upset! I never wore the ring. I didn't know how to get recourse. There was no internet or yelp. We aren't wealthy people, & that was a lot of money for us to spend. I was recently going thru some old receipts, & found the paper work. I decided to post my experience, in the hopes that I could prevent others from having a similar experience. Don't buy a ring in a dark Jewelery store, where you can't see the stone's color. Don't give your business to a business like this. Save your money & don't buy jewelry while you're on vacation. You don't know who you're dealing with, & you may make an impulsive decision that you regret. read more

I have been going back to B&G for years, it all started several years ago when I saw a ring in the window that had to be the most beautiful ring I had ever seen. When I went inside I was greeted by Peter who explained that the ring was designed by his brother and was one of a kind. I left without it by couldn't forget it. Peter called me and said he knew how much I wanted it and worked it out for me. He made it personal, wanting me to have it. I have since purchased other jewelry from him and make sure that I visit the store every time I'm in town. B&G has to be the best jeweler that I have ever found. I look at other jewelers but always end up back at B&G. read more

I am very surprised that there are not more reviews of this shop and that the only review was negative. I had an excellent experience here. We found a beautifully designed wedding band and engagement ring set that had all of the design features that we were looking for but could not find elsewhere....and we were looking everywhere for months! I met the designer Alex, who was also one of the owners, and he gladly answered all of my questions and took the time to explain everything in detail. We have been to many jewelers and I can honestly say that Alex was not only the most informed, but also provided the best customer service. Even when I explained that I already had plans to obtain the diamond from another source, Alex was fantastic. He did not try to talk me out of it or put on any sales pressure. The excellent service continued as I called later to purchase the set (as I wanted to keep it a surprise) they accommodated my schedule to have the diamond set on the spot while I waited. When I brought in the diamond they inspected it, answered all of my questions regarding the setting/mounting process and even complimented the diamond and my selection. As I watched Alex set the diamond it was clear that he is a skilled craftsman who takes pride in his work. The completed ring looked fantastic! While I was waiting I was able to talk with and meet Peter, the other owner. He too was very knowledgeable, friendly and professional. I am extremely satisfied with my purchase and am impressed with their excellent customer service. I have no hesitation in recommending this shop. read more

Some 5 or so years ago, we found and purchased an intricately designed ring populated with several loops of small black and clear diamonds mounted on white gold bands in B&G's window. (See posted picture.) Since then, numerous women have commented to my wife about its uniqueness and sparkly brilliance. (Sadly, they never acknowledge that some wonderful man must have chosen it for her.) Due to daily wear, some three of the black and clear diamonds were missing, so we returned to B&G to see about repair/replacement. The owners indicated that it might take a while to get the black diamonds and asked if we could wait a few weeks, indicating they would call when it was ready and let us know what the cost would be at that time, after which they would send it FedEx, insured. We left the ring and a few weeks later got the call that the ring was ready for shipment. The best part? The ring was perfectly restored and there was no charge for anything! Absolutely, the best jewelry store in Carmel. read more

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There are a few things in life a man must have by his early-30's... A good accountant - a AAA membership - a good lawyer - and to round it out you have to have your go to Jeweler, B&G are my guys... My mom & Sister discovered Peter & Alex about 20-yrs ago. They have been taking great care of our family ever since. Christmas of 2013 I bought a piece for my God daughter and Peter pulled out some nice dark chocolate and brandy, awww can't wait for the Hollidays! Thanks for everything! read more

My husband (at the time just my boyfriend) went to B & G to shop for an engagement ring. We had 2 other friends who shopped here for their engagement rings and said that they were phenomenal and we definitely weren't let down when we tried them ourselves!! We decided to make a trip out of it since we live in Pasadena and were going to drive all the way to Carmel. We walked in on a Saturday and were greeted by two gentlemen who were very kind. I had a specific idea in my head of what I always wanted my engagement ring to look like and so the process began to bring my idea to life. We were there for many hours and Peter who was the gentlemen who helped us, was more than willing to show us all the many different styles, diamonds, shapes, colors, designs... it was mind blowing!!! After looking at all the different unique things they had in their store, I took some ideas and incorporated them into my vision and vwalllllla!!! I had my ring!!!!! I know its pretty odd for a woman to go in and pick out her own engagement ring but it was very important for me to have exactly what I had envisioned and I am so glad that we chose B & G to bring my vision to life!! For anyone looking for excellent service and nothing short of perfect, I would definitely recommend giving them a shot. They have become my go-to place for all of my pieces!!! read more

My fiancé and I went to B&G Jewelers to pick out my engagement ring and our wedding bands. They have a beautiful selection of rings and bands to choose from, and they custom made a ring for me. I told them what I liked/disliked and they made the most beautiful engagement ring! We went back a few months later to pick out our wedding bands and both Peter and Alex made sure that both my fiancé and I were happy with our jewelry. They went above and beyond with communication with us. Alex made my ring and our bands and he is so talented, our jewelry is perfect. They were honest and extremely nice to us and made us feel very comfortable. I get compliments constantly on how beautiful my ring is and how sparkly it is!! We will definitely be using them for all of our jewelry needs. Thank you Alex and Peter! read more

Me and my wife moved here about three years ago after getting engaged. We were looking for a new jeweler since we moved here from Florida and were planning a wedding and needed wedding bands We bought our Wedding rings from Peter at B&G after an extensive search that expanded from San Francisco to Carmel. From the very beginning he made it very easy. Everything was as promised and also on time. I have to say that customer service in this place is absolutely the best even after the sale he has been more than helpful. Since then I bought couple nice pieces from here and I have found my new favorite jeweler here in NorCal. . I would recommend B&G Jewelers to anybody read more

I've purchased jewelry from B & G Jewelers for over 20 years now, and the reason I keep coming back is because I couldn't find a better, more honest, decent and professional jeweler & human being than Peter to work with. Alex is amazing too! I trust them implicitly and after all these years they know what I like, and don't like. I'm grateful they're still in business, as it's been a tough time for so many small businesses, and I hope they'll be around for many years to come. I would recommend them very highly to anyone wanting a great experience! read more

Growing up, my father bought jewelry for my mother from Alex and Peter so when it was time for me to get engaged I knew I would be taken care of. I told them what I liked and didn't like and they were able to customize a beautiful ring for my equally beautiful wife. Recently, we celebrated our 10 year wedding anniversary and once again, I went to B&G Jewelers. They designed an eternity band that paired perfectly with her wedding band. Their unique designs and quality service is why I continue to use them. They are the best! read more

These guys are the best. We have been doing business with Peter and B&G Jewelers for over 15 years. We have made anniversary purchases, unique designs as well as some vintage pieces. We have recommended our family and friends to them as well and they have all been extremely happy with their friendly expert service. We only shop B&G when we are in Carmel shopping for jewelry. Unique jewelry, experts with fair and honest dealings. I strongly recommend them to anyone when you are in Carmel. Stop by and say hi to Peter, a true gentleman. This is a family owned business and you get treated like family when you are doing business with them. And that, is something that is rare these days, and I really appreciate that aspect of their business as well.. Rich Coto de Caza, Ca read more

My sister and I stopped in when she was visiting, a diamond had fallen out of her ring and luckily we found it. It is a family run business and they could not have been more helpful. Peter was the one who we talked with first, Alex (the jeweler) was at one of their other locations but was there quickly to assist us. They explained how the ring could be repaired and the work was fantastic. It is the cleanest I've ever seen her ring! Since the first visit both Connie and I have purchased jewelry from them. My earrings were actually designed by Alex and I absolutely love them. The antique pieces are gorgeous.. Hopefully I'll own a piece sooner rather than later! I always look forward to stopping in when I am out and about in Carmel, I recommend stopping in for whatever your jewelry needs are. You won't be disappointed! read more

Alex, who also owns B&G Estate Jewelers around the corner, took items of jewelry from me to sell in 2012. I had recently been left a jewelry business left to me and my brothers. I trusted them due to the reference from a mutual friend and business associate. They took the items, and this is common in the jewelry business, to sell in their stores. At first, they paid for the items they sold. Then they purchased additional items. I trusted them. That was a big mistake. After learning they had sold more of my items, and not getting my calls returned, i drove to Carmel, a 90 minute trip, to talk with them. Alex, the brother who took the items, was no where to be found. I went into the store on Ocean and tried to present Peter my bill of what I was owed. He shoved my paperwork back at me, telling me it was Alex I needed to talk to. I was dismissed. I tried sending them letters. Then came back to me, undelivered and refused. I was written a check and two days later the check was returned with a stop payment on it. It's now 4 years later. I've been back to B&G Estate Jewelers, also Peter & Alex's store, and it's been remodeled. I am owed money by them and in 3 years, they have made no attempt to pay me. Even small payments through the years would have been better than this kind of treatment. So, next time you visit their stores, you might want to ask them if the jeweler who gave them the piece is going to be paid. I wasn't. It is especially hurtful because the pieces they sold were one of a kind pieces, made by my father, who is an extremely admired designer. It would have been better for our family to have his work than to have this to happen. Now we have neither the pieces or the money. Not very nice and we feel very taken advantage of. The one star is so this gets published. read more

I'm a local and I must say that B&G is my favorite jewelry store in Carmel. I have been purchasing jewelry from them for many years. Their selection is great, quality is better, and customer service is exceptional. If you are in town and looking for something special with amazing quality for a great price, you MUST visit B&G!! Ask for Peter! read more

If I could give less....I would. On a recent stroll through Carmel to look at engagement rings for my sister we stopped by to peak at their selection. After a few minutes in the store we had to ask the person behind the counter for help (the owner). It seemed like we were asking him to move mountains as he made his way to us already in a bad mood. When my sister made a comment about one of the rings that he did not agree with he literally became even more rude (if that was possible) and said "Yeah, Ive been doing this business for 25 years but whatever the customer is always right." We walked into MANY jewelry stores in Carmel and they were all very eager to assist and pleasant to work with. I wouldn't spend a penny with this business. This is NOT how customers should ever be treated. read more

I had a really bad experience with a purchase from this store. I should have been more adamant about them taking care of it but didn't want to continue to hassle over something that was supposed to be so important to me. They just skirted around the issue with my husband and we felt like they were avoiding us. Would warn against doing business here. read more

I hardly ever post on Yelp and if I do, it is usually a good review. I feel so strongly about warning people to stay away from B&G that I needed to write this evaluation. My husband took me on a surprise trip to carmel to buy a new ring. After visiting about 6-8 jewelry stores in Carmel I found a ring I loved at B&G. I had never been diamond shopping before and we were looking at a $25,000 ring so I asked the staff a lot of questions about the diamond. I visited the store twice on the same day and spent about 2 hours working with the staff. Alex, the jeweler, told me the diamond was "very good quality" and "ideal." They told me that they had been in business for over 35 years and I should trust them. They said that I would not find a better deal on a diamond ring. They also told me that this was the best price they could give me and they could only give me that price because the other jeweler was out of town and would not approve such a low price. Of course, these sales techniques made me nervous (trust your instincts). I asked to see the diamond certification. My husband wrote down the specs and we went online to compare the specs and price. The main diamond in the ring was brilliant cut, 1.62 carats, H color, and had a 57.2 depth and a 69% table. If you look at guidelines online, both the depth and table of this diamond are "poor." I went back in to give them the chance to correct me as I am not a diamond expert - I thought maybe this was a special cut of diamond and the specs would not translate. Alex told me that an excellent round cut diamond would have a table of 52-62% and this diamond was in that range. I told him the diamond had a 69% table and he looked at the certification and told me that even though the table was outside of the range, it was still an "very good" cut diamond. Needless to say, I did not buy the ring and B&G lost a customer. They have beautiful jewelry and are right downtown Carmel (on Ocean next to the coffee shop). There are numerous other jewelery stores in Carmel - go to one of them. I do not trust B&G. read more

Notwithstanding the quality or craftsmanship of the merchandise sold at this business, the treatment I received by Gary, an employee of this business, was terrible. Frankly, it was unspeakable! I temporarily parked my touring bike in front of his business, which turned out to be no more than just a few minutes. At the time, I was not wearing a business suit; instead, I was dressed in my bicycle gear as I was on a bike tour along the Pacific coast with two friends. Gary demanded that I move our bikes that were staged in front of the business. When I politely inquired as to why, he offered what I considered to be, a lame excuse. It was obvious he considered us homeless and therefore a nuisance. When I attempted to engage in a dialogue, he became angry and misinterpreted my questions as defiance to his orders. His anger grew as he became animated with rage. He said if I didn't move the bikes he would call the police. The owner of the business attempted to defuse Gary's anger by ordering him back into the business, and to remain quiet. Gary didn't listen. The owner was very respectful and allowed us to remain long enough to finish our business next door. (No bike racks were available and the bikes were positioned not to impede pedestrians). Gary continued to advance and provoked me as I was preparing to leave. When I advised him that his business practice (rude behavior) would dissuade me from ever shopping at his business, he laughed out loud. He found it funny that someone like me, on a touring bike, could afford to shop at his store. The truth is, I can afford to shop at his store but I choose not to support a business that employs arrogant and ignorant people like Gary. The day prior, I met a traveler named Paul. He had been traveling the country by bike for several years. His pension funded his travels and enjoyed the outdoors with his dog, Sweetpea. During our chat at Veterans Park campground, he talked about how people treated him because of how he looks (poor and without) and his means of travel-a bike. On this day, I felt like Paul, judged and looked down upon for being on a touring bike. How we treat others should never be based on how we may appear, but as a fellow person. Judging from the outside only gives us a small glimpse about others. Dr. Martin Luther King Jr. said it best. Why is so hard to treat others with kindness and respect? The golden rules should always prevail, "Treat others the way you want to be treated." A simple concept but not always valued. read more