We had our wedding at Old Tappan Manor on April 4, 2026, and I can honestly say it was everything we hoped for and more. My name is Sam, and my wife Amanda and I spent a long time searching for a venue that felt elegant but still warm and personal--and the Manor delivered on every level. From the very beginning, the experience was seamless. The staff was incredibly organized, responsive, and genuinely invested in making our day special. Planning a wedding can feel overwhelming, but they guided us through every step with patience and clarity. No question felt too small, and no request felt like a burden. That kind of support made a huge difference for us. The venue itself is stunning. The grounds are beautifully maintained, and the manor has this timeless, classic charm that makes everything feel elevated without being stuffy. Our ceremony was held outdoors, and even in early April, the setting felt magical. The landscaping created the perfect backdrop for photos--honestly, we barely had to "pose" because every angle looked incredible. Inside, the reception space was just as impressive. The room felt spacious but still intimate, and everything flowed perfectly--from cocktail hour to dinner to dancing. The staff coordinated everything so smoothly that Amanda and I were actually able to relax and enjoy the night instead of worrying about logistics. One thing that really stood out was the food. We had heard good things beforehand, but it exceeded expectations. Our guests are still talking about it weeks later. From the cocktail hour selections to the main courses, everything was fresh, flavorful, and beautifully presented. They were also very accommodating with dietary needs, which was important to us. If I could give one piece of advice to future brides and grooms, it would be this: trust the team at Old Tappan Manor. They know exactly what they're doing. We came in with a vision, but they elevated it in ways we didn't even think of. Let them guide you--it will take so much stress off your shoulders. Also, take time on the day to really soak it in. The setting, the atmosphere, the way everything comes together--it goes by quickly, but it's unforgettable. Amanda and I both had moments where we just looked around and thought, "This is perfect," and that's something we'll carry with us forever. We truly couldn't have asked for a better place to start our marriage. If you're considering Old Tappan Manor, don't hesitate. It's not just a beautiful venue--it's a team that cares deeply about making your day everything it should be. --Sam & Amanda read more

Nestled in an upscale million dollar neighborhood in Tahan, New Jersey on the border of Rockland County, this little Catering jewel is ideal for family celebrations or corporate events. Valet parking and the car was returned in the same condition we left it. The service was friendly and professional. A clear sign of excellent training was when I approached a server at the cocktail reception to inquire about my allium allergies, she immediately brought the banquet, maître D to discuss the options for me. It was clear that the allergy was not communicated to the establishment or within the establishment. Nonetheless, the concern was handled with care and thoughtful professionalism. The options that were still available to me or communicate communicated, and I had a wonderful meal. The grounds and garden are well designed for outdoor services. In this case, an outdoor wedding. Chairs were comfortable, and the fountain in the background created a lovely atmosphere and photo opportunity. The one critique I have is that no covering such as a gazebo or tent, was insight and thunderstorms were eminent. If I could recommend anything to the management, it would be to have this option on hand to avoid distractions from the actual ceremony. When thunder crackled in the background, we secretly hoped that the service would come to an end in time. Everyone was dressed in evening attire, so a gazebo or tent would have been appreciated. We were not inside more than 15 minutes when the skies did open up. Catastrophe averted. With the exception of one server who spilled wine on my son's newly pressed shirt, Service was meticulous. In the case of the red wine incident, this could have been averted by wrapping the wine bottle appropriately in a service linen. A little more training in this area would be recommend recommended. All in all, a solid four star event. The filet mignon, French green beans, and magnificent desserts were a five star Cleverly, our hosts prepared and end to the night with a coffee station and Donuts cleverly hanging on Hooks. The donuts were exceptional. It's difficult to rate without knowing the cost per person so I am limiting my rankings beginning with a five star and deducting minimally for a couple of challenges in service. The banquet maître D was exceptional. read more

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From start to finish, everything was a dream....12/10. Just speaking of the Old Tappan Manor i have heard the term "hidden gem" soooo many times and i can see how its true. Truly a gem and absolutely gorgeous. Victor did an amazing job guiding us through the menu and customizing everything for us...you should definitely trust him. When walked into the ballroom for the first-time, I actually thought i couldn't breath for a second. I became slightly dizzy out of sheer amazement from how beautiful everything looked all set up. We had the PERFECT night and got so many compliments. I would definitely recommend the old Tappan manor for anyone who wants their dream wedding. read more

Cozy venue with an indoor and tiny outdoor area. It's intimate, yet not super fancy. I would hold a breakdancing competion here, not a wedding. read more

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I visited this location while celebrating my cousin in-laws, daughters baptism, and it's actually a really beautiful venue inside and out. The staff were so friendly and attentive. It was honestly a great experience. The food was pretty good although there were a couple of pieces that were a mess. I know that there's a lot of pressure in cooking 200 meals at the same time so I don't really expect the best of the best benefit venues can do it, so can this one. If I had to ask them to improve on one thing it would probably be the chicken franchise, which was a little bit dry, but overall, I truly enjoyed the appetizers which were always the best part. Parking is incredibly easy there's a lot here however, there wasn't any valet read more

This place is seriously a hidden gem in Bergen County! The team was amazing from day one... so patient (especially with all our parents' questions) and just total pros. On the wedding day, they took care of everything... my husband and I didn't have to worry about a single thing. I had a few bridal attendants helping me out, which made things super easy. Joe is the best, and Rich and Victor were awesome too. Couldn't recommend them more... such a smooth, stress-free experience from start to finish! read more

5/5! 10/10! 20/20! Amazing place and food for a king. The place itself is gorgeous. We just came in after a renovation (6/1/25) and the bridal suite has a great makeup area and men's has a bar and great amenities. read more

Exceptional venue! Make sure you check this beautiful place out! From the food, to the service, to the physical venue of itself, the Old Tappan Manor is the best wedding venue I have been to by far. It's not the typical venue you go to. read more

I had my wedding here on 11/2/23 and I have to say this venue is absolutely amazing. From start to finish, Martin made the whole process so easy and was always there to help with any questions I had. My guests are still raving about the food and how beautiful the venue was! read more

Growing up in this area, I have been to bar mitzvahs, proms, and sweet sixteens here. The service is great and the food is delicious. There is a beautiful outdoor area in the back and a pagoda in the front for photos. The indoor ballroom is spacious and the lights can be changed into different colors for ambience. read more

Amazing! amazing! Amazing! Choosing a venue is definitely so hard but my (now) wife and I so confident know that we made the right decision. One thing that really stuck out to us was that they do one event on the premises and I can tell you IT MAKES A DIFFERENCE. This is for sure a place you should check out. Thank you Old Tappan Manor! read more

This review is long overdue, but I got married in August and I do not regret ever choosing this venue for our special day. I have so many good things to say about Martin because he helped us out so much leading up to the wedding to the day of. We had our ceremony outside in the backyard and the reception in the reception hall. Looking back at videos, Martin went above and beyond when it came to the lights (changing colors, flickering, setting the mood every time). Other venues charged extra when it came to details like these, but Martin's main priority was to make us happy and it definitely showed. Throughout the day, he would come up to us and make sure everything was going well and we didn't have any complaints. Our maitre d' Lauren was also fantastic! From setting up the venue hall to going over our rehearsal with family and friends involved to also making sure things went smoothly, she was a great help. My bridal attendant (I'm sorry I forgot her name!) always made sure I was okay and took care of me, my food and drinks, and my dress. All parties made sure my husband and I were well fed - something that we heard from other friends that got married that they missed out on. We held our tea ceremony (Chinese tradition during weddings) in the bridal suite upstairs. If the bridal party decides to get ready there, there is definitely an ample amount of space for everyone to be comfortable. I had about 20 family members in the suite during this time and it didn't feel cramped. Someone that was in charge of bringing the tea for the ceremony forgot to bring the tea, so my bridesmaids quickly ran down to Lauren and she took care of getting us tower water boiler, tea packets, and several mugs since the amount we brought weren't going to be enough to accommodate the time before heading back down for the start of the reception. The venue itself is beautiful. The layout of the backyard (if you plan to hold an outdoor ceremony) is inviting and you also pass by an elegant waterfall/fountain which made a beautiful backdrop in pictures. The bar was located in the lobby which was good in-between for the cocktail reception area and the reception hall. We had no complaints regarding the venue itself and received many praises for choosing a great venue. The FOOD was a big big plus - we received many compliments stating that this venue was some of the few locations that served quality food (they have their own kitchen in the back so nothing is delivered from outside) To Martin, Lauren, my bridal attendant, the chefs, waiters, set up/break down crew, THANK YOU ALL SO MUCH for such a smooth and memorable day. Have your wedding here! You won't regret it - I promise! read more

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We attended a wedding reception here recently and it was really nice. The venue is beautiful and very well maintained. It's located in a very residential neighborhood, so it almost pops up out of nowhere. We drove up, the trees along the pathway are brightly lit with holiday lights. There was complimentary valet parking. The cocktail reception room is fairly small, which leads me to believe that Old Tappan Manor probably isn't the venue for large weddings. The food available to us during the cocktail was good and full of variety for all dietary needs.The main hall where the reception was held was also a beautiful room with a large dance floor in the middle of the room. The main course served during the reception was delicious. If you're in North Jersey or possibly even NYC and you're looking for a place to have a reception, you may want to consider Old Tappan Manor. Your guests will certainly remember it for a long time. read more

Old Tappan Manor - Venues & Event Spaces Near Me - Old Tappan, New Jersey

My husband and I got married at this venue during the pandemic. We loved this venue!! Martin, the catering director, was so accommodating and very professional! Due to Covid-19, everything was very uncertain, but Martin always reassured us to feel at ease. They were very accommodating to our every need. He walked with us throughout our whole planning process! He even made sure to remind us to enjoy the day. Amada, the Bridal Attendant, and Lauren, the Maitre D, were also very helpful on the wedding day! They were with us all throughout the event, making sure that we were well cared for (& fed something many couples forget on the wedding day)! And the food, let me tell you.... Our guests have been raving about the food! Everything was delicious!! I hope I get to attend an event at this venue as a guest in the future so I can eat all the foods I didn't get to eat!! We love Old Tappan Manor!! read more

The Old Tappan Manor (formerly the Colonial Manor) was the site of a good friend's wedding earlier this month, and it was spectacular. As you walk in, there is a large reception area with a nice bar. Through the doors to our left, we had "appetizers," which was really like the first dinner. There were tables spread along the walls with different foods, such as fruit and cheese, sandwiches, a carving station, pastas, seafood -- you name it. Once the cocktail and appetizer hour was over, we went to the other side of bar to the main event room, which was incredible. The chandeliers were absolutely beautiful, and the centerpieces were perfectly arranged. Everything was very well done. Great sound system, awesome lighting, nice dance floor, tasty food, and professional service. A wonderful site for weddings! read more

Old Tappan Manor - Venues & Event Spaces Near Me - Old Tappan, New Jersey

Flew here for someone's wedding. Phenomenal venue, both inside and outside. The facilities are all gorgeous, from the bar to the event rooms. The decor and lighting were also breath-taking. A previous reviewer, Sarah L, mentioned this used to be called the Colonial Manor and it definitely has that colonial touch. Very dramatic and vintage classy feel to this venue. The venue has the main ballroom, I guess you could call it, where dinner actually took place. It has another room for cocktail hour and socializing before dinner. The upstairs room for getting ready was very nice too with a lovely view from the second story. There's a small courtyard behind the main ballroom that had a large waterfall fountain facing the ballroom window, which served as an awesome backdrop for the ballroom festivities. Really had a great experience here. A wonderfully coordinated wedding in a gorgeous venue as this makes for an unforgettable memory! read more

My husband and I were married at Old Tappan Manor on May 30, 2015 (this past Saturday). We worked with Martin Shanley through most of the process and were pleased with everything! The grounds are absolutely breathtaking (the gorgeous gazebo, the waterfall cascade with patio, the stunning ballroom) and the service was excellent! There was a minor issue with the sushi station (apparently there was a car accident and the sushi did not arrive on time), but Martin quickly let us know about the issue, assured us they were getting replacement sushi, and offered to reimburse us the amount we paid for it! The replacement sushi arrived towards the end of our cocktail hour and Martin made sure not only that people were able to get some before the reception but also that we received a plate of it after our cocktail hour. People also really enjoyed the mashed potato bar, the carving station, as well as so many of the other delicious food available. The level of attention to detail was incredible! Throughout the night, all of our guests kept commenting on how great all of the food was and how attentive the waiters were. The facilities were clean and well maintained. We had a fantastic time and I would highly recommend Old Tappan Manor to any fellow bride and groom looking for a stunning place in northern NJ to celebrate your big day!!!! read more

We had my sister's in law wedding yesterday at this place. And I was her bridesmaids. The place is beautiful, in fact stunning. In reality I was going to give a lower rating but gave it 3 stars because the place was perfect and because 2 staffs (Lauren and Kristine) were beyond AMAZING with us!!! However management has major WORK to do! Martin and another gentleman (either sales or manager not sure) were EXTREMELY rude to our bride and wedding party! The bride was trying to get dressed for her photoshoot at the ballroom prior to the wedding. Martin and the other guy came in saying that they had other appointments set up for guests to check out the place, and that we had 5 mins to get dressed. Like REALLY?!!. He was basically talking to us as if we had no rights to be there and making us feel all rushed. The bride was about to cry. The wedding is a special day, and already hectic as it is, why speak to us in such manner? The photographer had to tell him "Ok I understand you have appointments BUT SHE PAID for TODAY". Yes she did, and a pretty penny!. Finally after the photos were done, Martin came in said hello nicely and congratulated the bride. And later on apologized. We were very confused at the change in attitude. We felt that it was too late. He also gave her a few pieces of steak to take home, I guess to make up for it. But that didn't change the sour experience. We ended up letting it go and asking for drinks to continue the celebration. On another hand, I'm also very close to the bride and everyyyy time she called, he kept forgetting her name and that she was booked for April 8th. She was so annoyed at this. He kept saying "who's this again? Outtara? Beltre wedding? You're booked with us? Really what date again?". For an entire year they had booked. That experience was not pleasant for her, and she had communicated that to myself and her husband. Thankfully the event did run smooth and beautifully and Kristine and Lauren were loved by the entire bridal party. They made our nights and experience 100% better!!!! They met every need we needed and put smiles in our faces. If it wasn't for them, we would've been super unhappy. read more

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We attended a bar mitzvah here and we're pleased with everything from the food, drinks and service. During the cocktail hour there were several stations with pleasant staff, and servers. All their food was prepared to perfection. Their bar staff was friendly and experienced. The dinner service was great too. Everyone was served quickly while the food was still hot. Seems like most places have trouble with this these days, not the Old Tappan Manor. Thank you read more

Not the greatest place but yoU get what you pay for Acoustics are terrible Service is ok Food is tasteless read more

We got married here in August and it was love at first sight! From the first moment we met Martin, all of our needs and wants were never a problem. He honestly made the reception the easiest part to plan. The whole place is gorgeous and breathtaking. Even though my husband's party caused us to be 45 minutes late (something always has to go wrong lol) Old Tappan Manor was nothing but accommodating. Martin made sure the photographer stayed on track so that my husband and I could actually enjoy time alone. Everyone is still talking about the amazing time they had. From the delicious and extravagant cocktail hour to the beautiful chandeliers and marble all over the place. I wish I could do it again all over!! Martin even personally told me when he was heading out and made sure I was OK before hand. Of course I was because he left everything in the hands of Rich, the matre'd. The bridal assistant was also very attentive and she made me feel like it was still about my husband and me even though we all know it wasn't lol! You will not be making a mistake having your reception here. Everything is perfect from the bathrooms to the food to the landscaping. And not to mention, it was much more bang for your buck than the 10 other venues we looked at. Thank you Martin and the rest of the Old Tappan Manor staff for making another couple have the wedding of their dreams! read more

Old Tappan Manor - Venues & Event Spaces Near Me - Old Tappan, New Jersey

Martin and the Old Tappan Manor Team really came through for my daughters party. The food and service was perfect. The maitre de was great, she was on top of everything. (everyone is still talking about how nice the place and food were) i definitely recommend to family and friends. Thanks again for everything. read more

Finally getting back to reality after my daughter's wedding celebration - which was held at the Old Tappan Manor. We could not have been more pleased with the venue. The staff were professional and attentive. The cocktail hour was outstanding and plentiful, and the entrees (Chateaubriand, chicken dish [can't remember the type], and Chilean Sea Bass) were a complete home run with all our guests. Dessert was good, but I have to confess, I was too full to appreciate the 3 different dessert samplers we were served. The rooms are comfortable, spacious and tastefully decorated. The bridal suite and another separate upstairs room were perfect for the bridal party and then for our babysitters and younger family members who needed a quiet place to rest, away from the festivities. I recommend Old Tappan Manor without reservation! Special shout out to Martin, Lauren and their wonderful waitstaff. You all were integral in making a lasting and beautiful memory. Thank you! read more

My husband and I got married at the Old Tappan Manor on July 9, 2022 and it was the greatest night of our lives. From the start, Martin (one of the sales managers) was so friendly and accommodating. He was in contact with so many couples for many different dates, yet always made us feel like we were his top priority. The rest of the staff was just as amazing. The maître'd Lauren and bridal attendant Amada were our go-to's the day of, and they helped to make sure everything went perfectly. The venue itself is absolutely gorgeous. The newly renovated ballroom features a gorgeous marble floor, uplighting and chandeliers. The food is outrageously yummy and you seriously get a bang for your buck with all that is included in the cocktail hour! This event was absolutely beautiful, the staff alone made it so perfect for us. I highly recommend hosting an event here (not just weddings!) We will absolutely be back in the future. read more

Rockni made our experience at the Old Tappan Manor such a success! From the moment we met him he was dedicated to please us and help us create our daughter's dream wedding. Our guests were awed by the luxurious hall; immaculate and gorgeous, the grounds and view are also stunning. The staff was super accommodating and helpful all throughout the afternoon and evening, they were also gracious to our guests and made everyone comfortable. It was pleasure having our wedding at the Old Tappan Manor and you will be too. read more

My sister got married here last year. I may be biased but it was a beautiful, and fun wedding. While we prepared for the big day, the staff was attentive and there to help my family. They truly cared about my family and wanted to make my sister's big day perfect. The facilities were breath taking, the food was delicious (mashed potato bar!), and the staff was helpful. I would recommend this place to anyone. It holds such great memories for my family! read more

Our Fairytale Wedding- April 12, 2014 The day we drove into the scenic and beautiful Old Tappan Manor, which truly felt as though we were arriving at someone's elegant home, we knew this was the perfect place for us to have our wedding. From the beautiful grounds and waterfall, to the cocktail room, bridal suite and bar, every part of the venue is classic and decorated to the nines! The ballroom is simply magnificent and breathtaking. The chandeliers are out of this world and the lighting setup makes for such an incredible atmosphere for guests. And that's just the look of the place, not to mention the EXCEPTIONAL maitre d and staff at the Old Tappan Manor. Working with Martin Shanley from day one led to smooth sailing for a year and a half of planning. I'll never forget how Martin said to us the day we met--- this is YOUR day and we will make it special and unique for you. He did not disappoint-- everything we wanted on that day, we had. My husband is a total food lover, so that was his area of expertise. When he and my dad looked at the menu options, their eyes just lit up! Everything you can imagine was on there and more. Our selections were sincerely enjoyed by all of our guests and some fan favorites were the raw bar with lobster, oysters and seafood of all kinds, handmade sushi right on site, a panini bar with cuban sandwiches and corned beef ruebens (showing our cuban and irish hertiage), the italian antipasto, pasta station, scampi station, meats... I can go on and on! Everything was enjoyed and there was something for every guest's palate. Martin and the chef on the day of our tasting recommended three exquisite entree options, that our guests selected the night of the wedding (a nice touch) and I've never seen so many entree plates wiped clean after a full happy hour! In addition to the spectacular food, the most special part of the day, to me, as the bride, was the comfort that our friends at the Old Tappan Manor provided. Martin felt like a part of the family and I knew if i needed anything at all, I could find him and he would take care of it. Having planned events for most of my career, it is so important to have someone to lean on like Martin. I trusted him to help us run the event smoothy and honestly, everything went off without a glitch. Thank you Martin & everyone at the Old Tappan Manor for making my fairytale wedding come true. I without reservation recommend the Old Tappan Manor for any bride seeking a unique, memorable, personal and unforgettable experience. read more

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I am still speechless with how incredible The Old Tappan Manor was. My husband and I got married here on October 20th, 2017. It was the most magical night. Martin was great to work with; he was so helpful. On the night of wedding, the staff was also amazing and attentive. Not only did the gorgeous ballroom blow our guests away. They also raved about the phenomenal cocktail hour and delicious food. I highly recommend OTM if you're looking for a wedding venue that's affordable, beautiful and has GREAT food. I hope I get to be a guest at a wedding here someday, and can experience the venue again! read more

Attended a batmitzvah at this venue. Beautiful garden and very elegant hall. Valet parking and rural setting gives this place a very up market feel. Wait staff we're good. Would recommend this place for any function. read more

Our daughters Sweet 16 Birthday was celebrated here in August and we could not be more pleased after reviewing so many catering halls in the regional area. We were also happy to book a Saturday night for this special occasion. Martin, our catering manager and Lauren, the maître d', were outstanding in organizing and coordinating all of the components of the evening, making this the most memorable formal celebration we have ever planned. The food was quite delicious including the cocktail hour. The ballroom is so beautiful with the special lighting effects available. We have also had multiple past events at "The view on the Hudson" which is also managed by the same owners and we were also extremely happy at this location in the past. So far this has been our favorite location. read more

The best part was the chef and their knowledge of special dietary needs. Other than that. I'm not impressed. Many of us were staying at a hotel 10 mins away. They offered shuttle service to OTM. Since there were so many of us, the first shuttle was an hour before the reception started. When people started to arrive they were told they couldn't come in; not even into the foyer, which was already set up. There were two males who were part of the wait staff that were very rude and obnoxious throughout the evening. When cocktail hour was over, an announcement was made. Rude guy number one then proceeded to make loud, obnoxious remarks towards the people still in the room and making faces to the other worker. It's not like all of us attending the reception could all leave through one set of double doors at the same time. Then we have the drama at the bar. One bartender yelling at another one, in front of everyone at the bar. Really? Who does that? It was demeaning to the other bartender and it was very unprofessional. Plus, it was for something that wasn't even that bad. There were more incidents that occurred throughout the night but I'm sure you get my drift. I would not recommend this place, nor would I look forward to attending another event here. Such a shame. Nice looking place but some of their employees needs lessons on manners and proper etiquette. read more

We recently had our wedding here. Martin Shanley was our coordinator. He was excellent. We had approximately 120 guests. The majority of my guests said it was the best wedding they've ever been to as the food and place were dynamite. The cocktail hour was plentiful and delicious. The main course and desserts were fabulous. Awesome in every aspect. I highly recommend. read more

Recently visited the Old Tappan Manor for a Senior class luncheon. The establishment is relatively small, which allows for intimate venues without the hype of many other venues occurring simultaneously in the same establishment. Indoor and outdoor decorations are elegant, however nothing special. The foodservice was incredibly awful. The waitstaff essentially threw the plates of food onto the table and most of the food was overcooked or over-salted. Overall, my experience at the Old Tappan Manor was mediocre. I would not recommend the Old Tappan Manor to others for future events. read more

Giving a different view as an attendee versus a bride. Ambiance is fabulous. From the chandeliers to the gorgeous outdoor views. Waiters and waitresses very attentive and accommodating. The cocktail hour was good, not great. Some dishes like satay chicken and beef and coconut shrimp were excellent as some dishes like calamari and lamb chops ok. Vodka bar quite beautiful and enhanced the room. The OT Manor certainly stood out with the entrees. My boyfriend never eats entrees at weddings but gave it a try and enjoyed the filet mignon and my chicken with salsa was also very good. I looked around the table and everybody ate their entrees. Desserts good and cake was very fresh and moist. Not sugary! A very nice experience for us. read more

Our wedding at Old Tappan Manor was fantastic! We definitely came with a lot of complicated requests: we wanted a kosher wedding and there were a lot of moving parts. In addition, our two families are very different and we were tough to accommodate. Martin, Richard and the whole OTM team did everything they could to help us and they did a beautiful job! It was a smooth and gorgeous wedding and they were very at our service. They worked with us down to the finest detail and went out of their way to make us happy! Above and beyond! The venue is beautiful and definitely an amazing value. I wish we could do it all again so we could have more fun! read more

Thank you one million times, Alex, and the staff at the Old Tappan Manor. We were married here on 8/28/2013. I can't say enough praises. It was from start to finish, better than I could even imagine. From our first meeting, Alex listened to our wishes, and having been in this business for decades, wasn't shy to add his two cents. The cocktail hour was more than plentiful. We were given six choices of stations and our 165 guests were never in want. Some of the highlights were the Mashed Potato Martini bar, the carving station (my father-in-law said it was the best lamb he'd ever tasted) and the risotto station. The Tuscan style cold-food station was literally overflowing. The reception itself is in a stunning ballroom with HIGH arched ceiling adorned with a dozen or so chandeliers. The main chandelier makes the one from the Phantom of the Opera blush. There is a large, marbled dance-floor, which we used from the moment we were introduced until the very end of the reception with an hour or so pause when we of course had to make our rounds to greet our guests. The table service was immaculate. All of the staff were courteous, efficient, and professional. The appetizer was waiting for us when we entered, and the main entree of salmon and beef charbriand was to taste and then some. Most people say that the cocktail hour has the best food at most venues, but the Old Tappan Manor really came to bat for the main hour dining. I didn't meet the chef, but he comes from the Rockleigh Country Club, which by the way, charges more than double what the Manor does. Having been to many functions at the RCC, I have to say without a doubt that the Manor is the better venue. After the dinner, there was more dancing. The bar more than kept up with our thirsty crew. There was one incident when one of my groomsmen dropped and shattered his glass in front of the bar, but someone came to clean it without a fuss even though it was our fault. For dessert, Alex gave us an impressive flambe show replete with high flames and circus-like bottle tricks. The kids especially seemed to love that. All in all, thank you, Alex and the OT manor, for the best wedding I could ever imagine. Even with our budget concerns. read more

My husband I were married at the Old Tappan Manor on 10/3/2014. They truly went above and beyond to make sure our day was perfect. From the start, we met with Martin who answered all of our questions and went out of his way to accommodate us. It felt like he truly wanted us to have the best day of our lives as opposed to other more expensive venues in the area who seemed to not really care if we chose them or not. We also got a food tasting which was not offered by most other venues in the area. Our day-of maitre d' was Richie who was also fantastic. He organized everything so well and was so helpful and kind. We had a first look at a park prior to arriving to the OTM. When we arrived we had attendants who were offering drinks to the entire bridal party in the huge bridal suite. Since we had the ceremony there, the room was converted during cocktail hour. The ceremony was so so beautiful. The tables were covered by nice curtains and the lighting with the chandeliers and the gorgeous fountain background was just perfect. During cocktail hour, we were brought upstairs to have some time alone before heading down to greet everyone. We were brought up whatever we wanted to eat or drink. It was a really nice time alone before the crazy reception. The reception was perfect. Family and friends are still raving about the food, the atmosphere and the huge bar. Thank you to Martin, Richie and everyone at the OTM for a perfect day. I highly recommend this venue to any other couple looking around. read more

We booked our daughters wedding thru Martin ... It was an amazing evening the staff was great the food was amazing ,,., I have never seen such a great cocktail hour there were stations everywhere you turned .. The food at the dinner was cooked to perfection. We searched around for places to have family pictures done we used their grounds and everyone was perfect .. The bridal attendant was right there for everything my daughter needed . We cannot say enough how good it was ... read more

Our son and daughter-in-law had their wedding at Old Tappan Manor last weekend. What a wedding! The staff, the food, the service, etc. was fabulous! And the place is gorgeous! Some of our guests told us that it was the best wedding ever, and I agree. read more

We had our wedding here recently and couldn't have been any more thrilled with the whole experience, from our first meeting with Martin (you will love him!!!) all the way through our reception. The Old Tappan Manor was a gorgeous and elegant venue. Everyone was thrilled with all of the delicious choices at cocktail hour and the entrees were incredible. They even have a bride attendant. She was the sweetest and made my night as well as my grooms smooth and stress free along with the Maître D'. We are so happy with our decision to have our big day there and highly recommend it to couples looking for their dream venue! read more