Let me begin by saying that I have been to this bar many times since I have lived in SF, and have always had a wonderful experience. However, tonight was different. Tonight I was treated very disrespectfully by the staff, and neither I nor my friends will ever by giving this bar our business in the future. About a half hour ago, I went to meet my friends, showed my ID to a man named Toby (or Tony) working the line, and then went to pay the cover. When I realized I didn't have enough cash, I texted my friends who were inside to come out to spot me for the cover. The man working the cash register politely told me where I could find an ATM close by. Toby curtly asked me to step aside while I waited for my friends, which is fair. I stood on the sidewalk for a few moments while waiting for my friend, when he asked me with a very rude tone to move over so I wasn't blocking the sidewalk. I waited, and my friend came out and gave me the two dollars I needed. I hopped back in line, and offered the men my cash, at which point "Toby" told me I could not go inside, because I was "too intoxicated." I informed him that I was not intoxicated, and he responded by mocking my body language, which is completely inappropriate and culturally insensitive, and telling me that it didn't matter what I said or did, I wasn't going to be let into the bar. I am a woman in my mid 20s, I had three drinks throughout the night, beginning at 7:30pm. It was 1:00am when I was going into the bar (I am writing this a half hour later). I was obviously not intoxicated. Certainly less intoxicated than most of the other people in line for the bar. I tried to reason with "Toby" seeking an explanation as to why I was not being allowed into the bar, as a patron who has given that bar my services for several years. Instead of treating me with respect and having a reasoned conversation with me, he threatened to call "Castro Patrol" and forced me to leave the premises. I have never been treated with such disrespect in my life, and I will be contacting Toad Hall to ensure that the manager knows his rude bouncer has cost the bar a lifelong patron. I am very disappointed, and feel that I was discriminated against as a woman, particularly when "Toby" mocked my body language, which was extremely offensive and unprofessional. When I politely asked why I wasn't being allowed in, and what I could do differently in the future, he told me to "look less drunk." Obviously the person writing this review is not "drunk." He had the nerve to say that to my face as I stood in front of him calmly asking him what the problem was, and what I could do differently. Needless to say, I will never be returning to Toad Hall. I have never been subjected to this kind of treatment in my life. I have never been mocked in this way in my life. And as an influential professional woman in SF I will make sure my friends and social circles choose other bars in the area. Your loss, Toad Hall. I suggest you reconsider your employees. read more