A Very Horrible Few Weeks
When I decided to put my sister under their care, Jennifer was friendly and accommodating. From these interactions we made the decision to bring her here after reaching the level she could no longer be cared for in her home.
But that was the best we saw from them.
We brought my sister down from northern California, which had been her home for the last 50 years. Making her leave her home and taking her to a new unfamiliar location was, as most can imagine, very stressful for her and the entire family.
After a long day of traveling we reached the facility on Sunday evening but there was nobody there to greet us and help her get situated in her room. Even though we told them we were coming and they expected us, we sat in the TV room for over an hour watching staff walk back and forth and nobody there to welcome my sister or any of us. We finally had to get up and start asking questions before we could get any assistance. Even after, they still ignored us until it was time to go to bed when a staff member came and impersonally advised my sister it's time for bed.
My sister fell down within the first few days of being in the facility. She had never fallen before. Then within the first few weeks she fell a 2nd time and a 3rd time. The third time she fractured her pelvis and needed to go to a rehab facility.
They still charged us $4580 for the 2nd month as well. Why? because we didn't give 30 day notice that she was going to leave!?!
So in total her bill was $9,920 for maybe 3 weeks.
The staff is basically dead eyed and unconcerned. Having a whole facility with everyone having dementia/alzheimers makes it very impersonal and disconnected. The staff did not appear to become acquainted with patients that can't remember them.
Also, since the facility is for memory impairment and dementia, there are other patients walking in the wrong rooms, taking things that don't belong to them, and there was even one older patient who would pull his pants down. One lady groaned loudly at every meal. There was an entire drawer of patients' missing glasses, and many missing slippers. Staff treated these incidents as they were not extraordinary, but regular events in a facility like that.
After rehab we did not take her back and put her in a Residential Care Facility in Fountain Valley where the staff there consisted of a couple who knew how she liked her coffee and what she liked to eat, and she never fell once fell in their care. We could rest at night knowing she was in good hands and taken care of. She spent her last few years with very personal care and attention and we had peace of mind.
Do not leave your relative here unless it is someone you don't like and want to shorten his or her time on earth from neglect, indifference, and/or accidents.
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