Last evening (October 25, 2023), I went with my daughter and her boyfriend to visit my grandson in the NICU. Since his birth on September 16, 2023, I have only been able to visit approximately five times due to planned vacations. The day of his birth, I believe there were behavioral issues with the baby's father and possibly my daughter, the baby's mother. On arrival to the hospital on that day (September 16), my oldest daughter and I were told we would need to be wanded. Having no clue as to why we were being treated as criminals, we acquiesced as my time was limited as I was flying out the next day.
Upon arriving back from my vacations, I visited approximately three more times (without being wanded) before the abhorrent behavior of your staff last evening. I went with the babys parents to visit the baby last night, one for myself, and secondly, it is my understanding that they are not able to visit him alone. As I was under the impression that I no longer needed to be wanded, I went to the receptionist desk and two young girls told me no that was not the case. I decided that I would not be violated so I started to return to my vehicle. My daughter and the baby's father went to the security office with myself present, and the security officer told me "no, I did not need to be wanded". So, we went back up and were able to start to visit my grandson. Shortly into the visit, a nurse and the same security guard interrupted my visit with the baby and told me no you need to be wanded. I refused and said I would leave. As I was sitting outside in the waiting area unbeknownst to the receptionists, I heard them discuss me and the situation. I spoke to them that I could hear them and how unprofessional they were. There was a young girl and a woman who said her son was a cop. By the way, if an assistant of mine spoke openly about a parent where I work, she would be fired immediately. After that I left not to return.
I completely (and whole heartedly) agree that if there is a safety issue with my daughter and her boyfriend, then fine, wand them. But what did I do that was criminal or unsafe??? I am the daughter of a career police officer, hold a degree in paralegal studies and lead the most boring life of a sixty-year-old woman! Not to mention that the father's mother is able to visit without being wanded. I would expect the same courtesy that she receives if not more.
As someone who works in an office environment, your rules are extremely capricious and arbitrary. For three visits, no one said a word to me, and I was able to visit my grandson without intrusion. One minute I am a danger, another I am not! Additionally, last time I checked, I am innocent until proven guilty in this country. I did absolutely nothing wrong and should not be treated in such a way. What I am even more disappointed in is that I am being discriminated against as my daughter and her boyfriend are drug addicts. Sorry, but I do not drink, do drugs or break any laws!
Additionally, I expect that I will receive a proper apology for such humiliating behavior on the part of your staff. As I told your receptionists last evening, I will be leaving negative reviews on social media. I also will be checking with an attorney to see if any of my civil rights were violated. read more