Let me start out by saying that Amethyst and everything and anything you can hope/wish/want in a…read moredoula/friend/support system, etc during this special time in your life! If you're thinking about a doula, debating it, stop what you are doing and say to yourself - yes I need this/ I deserve this! As a first time mom, I can say I had an easy pregnancy but towards the end my pregnancy got risky and I had to be induced 4 weeks early. Without the help and support from Amethyst I'm not sure I would have been as calm, cool and collected during my experience.
But let me explain how I met Amethyst - throughout my pregnancy I can say I can a fairy good pregnancy. I gained a healthy amount of weight, I stayed active, no cravings, the usually morning sickness the first trimester, etc. the only slight difference is my blood pressure was slightly higher than what it was pre pregnancy. No big deal right? With my routine check ups my blood pressure stayed the same.
So towards the end of my pregnancy and realize oh sh*t this is real - like this baby has to come out - I started to freak out! Are we prepared for this? What do I need? Do I know everything I need to know etc? So I started looking into hiring a doula.
Mind you I didn't know 100% of what a doula does. I did a lot of research (midwife v doula), I asked my friends who had doulas what their experience was, the credentials, etc. of course I went searching at the usually search engines, google and yelp! And that's when I came across Amethyst profile, read her reviews, her credentials, and it was weird feeling but compared to the other profiles I just kept gng back to hers! Law of attraction people! Listen to it! :-)
Anywho I gave Amethyst a call, she picked up right away, we had s great conversation and we set up an initial date to meet! I was so excited!
She came to my home in westchester and my husband and I had about a little over an hour meeting with Amethyst. We spoke about our backgrounds, how she got into this field, our fears, etc and as soon as she left I remember both me and my husband looked at each other and said - we need her! This was on a Tuesday
But that Friday - due to my blood pressure raising to risky levels - I had to be induced! So talk about timing! 40 hours of labor, with drugs pumped into my left and right because I wasn't dilating etc then ended up having a c section, amethyst was my rock! Yes my husband was there and was my rock as well but it's different.
She was there for me and my husband from the moment I was induced to the moment I was being sent out for surgery! The entire time I was so thankful and thinking wow what timing! Someone I met literally 72 hours ago and I feel like I know her forever! She has a magical spirit! She explained the process of being induced, what to expect, some of the medical terms the doctors used, she was such an amazing support system, I just simply can't thank her enough! She saved me!
So if you are hesitating - don't! Give her a call! It's a special time in your life! Us women don't really talk about pregnancy (pre/post) often but we should! What happens to our bodies, our spirits, etc we should be vocalizing it! It's not a negative thing' like we just accomplished something so badass as giving birth we should be praising ourselves! And amethyst is there for you! So go ahead and do it! You'll be happy you did!