I wanted to have a nice spa day for my best friend's 29th birthday. I haven't shared this since because I didn't want to ruin her day or make her feel bad about an experience that isn't her fault at all. So this is me finally sharing that experience, about a year later.
First off, we walk into the salon and the place clearly looks like it is under construction which I completely understand, they just moved locations and sometimes you do what you gotta do when you are running a business. I requested a full spa day- facials, massage, and pedi. They reserved the entire place for just us 2 which was nice. We are brought to the back and turns out my friend and I are going into 2 separate rooms. I guess that was ok? I was hoping we'd be in the same room together like typical spa days I've had but I had to brush it off. Then a man wearing a headband comes out of the massage room. I was like hm...I'd figure businesses like these would be more mindful of women who experience sexual assault and try to schedule a female masseuse for women. Or at least tell me over the phone ahead of time...but whatever, we were already there. I get my facial first, my friend goes into her room for her massage. The facial was ok. I could have definitely done that service myself. She even used a spin brush that was out of battery so she was constantly pushing the button to get it to spin. LOL. Then it was time for my friend and I to switch-
*trigger warning-sexual assault*
I walk into the massage room and the place feels like a converted bathroom. Definitely expected a better environment. The masseuse requests I undress, so I did. He enters the room and begins to work on me. He starts to ask me questions about my tattoos, where I'm from, etc. The moment I say "my husband and I," he stops and looks at me wide eyed and says, "oh, you're married?" I'm like...YEP! :) I continue to bring up my husband to make things clear, just in case. He did a great job on my back because I was super sore from working out. Then, he walks over to the bottom half of my body. He works on my legs, then he moves up higher and higher toward my crotch area. I start to cringe and freeze as he repeatedly massages the groin through the inside of my underwear literally swiping my vagina with the side of his hand. Not a slight graze either. He was really in there. I have received MANY massages, and NEVER has anyone done this to me. I'm laying there questioning everything. I had no idea how to react in the moment. [Do I say something? Or should I just shut up because I don't want to ruin my best friend's spa day?] He finally stops. Tells me to flip over. He walks back up to my top half and asks "would you like me to massage here? It's very tight."- he places his hands on my upper chest area. I was super sore from working out so I said sure. I did not know he was going to go all in. He caressed my breasts repeatedly, made a V with his fingers as he moved down my breast to make sure he doesn't touch my nipples, didn't even work on my upper chest area. I was so uncomfortable.
I was finally done. My friend seemed to have enjoyed her services so I didn't say anything. They gave us champagne while we waited for our pedicures which was an ok experience as well. I've had way better pedis. Paint job was uneven and there were small drips all over my toes. LOL but whatever...maybe the person that was working on me wasn't great at it. I just wanted to get out of there. We were finally done. Paid a lot of money. Definitely not worth it. Don't think I got a receipt either.
2 weeks later, our polish peeled off. And I am still grossed out by that masseuse. I hope he doesn't work there anymore. Never coming back anyway. Eck.
*EDIT* One of the owners commented and is clearly dismissing my experience. She is deflecting by putting the blame on me for not contacting them sooner and calling the timing of this review "funky." Regardless of the time frame, THIS IS NOT OK. It is clear where their moral values stand. I do not wish these experiences on anyone else who chooses to come here. Upon scheduling your appointment, confirm who will be working on you as they clearly have communication issues stated in prior reviews as well. It is such a shame the owner, Sara K, lacks the capability to take responsibility for their staff member's actions, does not even apologize, and can not respond with even a little compassion. She starts her comment off with "This must be a joke" and still continues to dismiss my experience through private message. A phone call will clearly not fix this. read more