Phenomenal service, friendly and educated staff! Loved the morning after pill donations, and it was very queer friendly. If you are in need of new toys and are in the area, I can't recommend them enough. Bummed I was just passing through because it would be my go-to if I was local! read more

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Great sex positive atmosphere. Helpful employees who are selling products they believe in. I was able to find the products I was looking for. The prices are very reasonable when you compare the quality that is being received. read more

Best place ever. I've been here twice. Now that I'm a full on adult I decided I needed to stop shopping at Spencer's and go somewhere legit. Me and my bff were looking through reviews all over abq. This place seemed very friendly and not over the top. We nervously walked through the doors.. and jeez I'm glad we did,,,, beautiful lingerie,, employees are enthusiastic about helping you find what your looking for,, but they don't hover they let you find what you want in peace... plus there was a dog last time my bestie liked that a lot. Also want to say they have great quality toys, expensive but worth it... I think the rope is a little overpriced for the quality but overall 10/10 read more

Oh my, where do I begin. First time visiting self serve. I've been coming to Albuquerque for 2 years and yet, the day before I leave back to Texas.. I visited this place. Found it on my maps as the closest to my location and began driving there thinking.. man if only Albuquerque knew about Kix'ies... and what do you know.. this gem of a place just blew me away. I went inside, found my beloved Kix'ies and lube (which they Didn't have exactly the lube I was looking for, I went with what they recommended ... I found it to be very quality and I'm sure I'll be seeking more when I go back home) The women I met here today brought me such extreme joy. They had everything that these other major stores (Hustler Hollywood, Castle..) DONT. Including a replacement charger to my Magic Wand Plus. read more

Small, but clearly sex positive and aiming for well lit education. That's refreshing after the slew of essentially novelty stores in this city. Also better prices than the novelty stores. read more

Self Serve is amazing. I've lived in big cities with multiple adult stores and sex/sexuality resource centers, and Self Serve is by far one of the best. Their selection is diverse and thorough, whether you're looking for toys or books, or anything else you might not know you're interested in. In my opinion, what really puts SS on its own level is the staff. By far the best staff I've encountered at any adult store. They are beyond knowledgable of every product they carry, and are also able to point you to resources both in the shop and elsewhere if you'd like to know more. They are definitely not trying to sell you a toy for the sake of the sale, which is great, especially when it can, for some, be a little nerve-wracking to be asking questions about/buying sex toys. Lastly, their classes are also great, if that's your thing/are curious. I was definitely a little nervous but they make you so comfortable. Not to mention, they're very reasonably priced. read more

These people are so knowledgeable about their products and about human nature. I'm glad that it is an open environment where you can ask some off the wall questions and you will get an honest, non biased answer with no judgment. If you're an awkward little person like me, you'll probably get the giggles as there is a wall lined with massive to not so massive dildos, but the awkwardness will wear off with the kindness and helpfulness of the staff. read more

Exactly what I thought it would be! Professionally and knowledgeable staff. Quality products. Nice, clean, sophisticated atmosphere. Highly recommend! I wish we had something like this in Denver! But I'll drive back to ABQ anytime! read more

As soon as I walked in I was greeted by a friendly staffer. I was looking for a certain item and it was so easy to find. The store is gorgeous and inviting. When the staff member was done with the customer she asked if I needed help. I had said yes that I needed an item. She got it and cashed me out. She was sooo sweet. I was in pain so I wasn't thinking of getting her name. I will definitely come here again. read more

As a sexuality educator and therapist Self Serve Sexuality Resource center is by far the best place I've visited in Albuquerque that was super sex positive and welcoming. I left with many resources and a list of educational classes to share with my students. I'll definitely be back! read more

This is a GREAT shop! I was greeted with a smile & warm "hello!". I was then asked if there was anything specific I was looking for (there was), which she happily showed me & then told me to feel free to look around & to ask her if I had any questions...that was it! No annoying sales tactics, just a very friendly & professional atmosphere. All adult shops should take lessons from these folks! All merchandise is displayed so that you can actually see the items, which are very high quality, but affordable. I went by myself, but I would have no problem bringing my wife along, or for that matter, letting her go alone. If you've been embarrassed, or had bad experiences at other adult shops, go to this one...it's a game changer! read more

Sex and intimacy can be difficult to discuss because they're considered taboo to talk about with anyone that isn't your partner - and even that can be difficult. So when I tell you that Self Serve throws that stigma in the trash can and openly embraces whatever you're looking to get in to, I truly mean it. From the brightly colored walls, to the carefully organized displays, to the delightful sales people - this place oozes with welcoming openness. Please believe me when I tell you that the employees at Self Serve provide a beautifully executed example of accommodating and judgement-free assistance. If you're shy and walking into a place that openly displays sex toys and other fun things kinda freaks you out, you can still check out their online store. The website is easy to use, with most items providing a quick description and a "care & upkeep" section to know what you'll need for your new fun thing - and if you're still not sure about the item you can call the shop and they'll tell you all about it! If you're feeling a little more adventurous they offer a plethora of classes for all types of educational fun (some are even offered online). The long and short of it: check this place out at least once or visit their website. The proof is definitely in the pudding. read more

This locally owned ABQ shop is absolutely fabulous. The customer service is exquisite and all staff members are very knowledgeable about their products-which as others have said are all completely safe and made of good materials and ingredients. They offer a huge range of classes and events every month for all types of people, and the store itself is comfortable and inviting. If you leave the store with any goodies have no fear, the inconspicuous packaging wont turn any heads. Looking for something specific-or you don't see what you want? The staff is also willing to order it for you, and sometimes they can offer a discount when doing so. Last but not least this store is supportive, open and welcoming to the LGBTQ(QIP2SAA) community and I recommend to anyone-give a visit to this cool local spot. read more

Self Serve Sexuality Resource Center - Adult Shops Near Me - Albuquerque, New Mexico

When I first heard about this place I was a little nervous. I've been to my fair share of seedy sex shops, some better some worse some outright gross! So the thought of self serve tipped it into the gross category for me at first mention. Why go to a store I thought? I can get all the self service I want right here at home in the comfort of my grandma's basement. And I don't have to worry about anyone peeking at me anymore while I'm doing it now that grandma uses a walker and can't come down here anylonger. But when I found out they had classes I thought hmm maybe there's more than one way to do this so I went to check it out. Initially I was kind of thrown off after entering. This place looked kind of like a tea and scone place not a sex shop. I was expecting walls full of giant dildos, fetish items and porno movies and where were the peep show rooms? The chicks running this place seemed nice enough but the selection was limited. I didn't stay long because I felt weird. Weird in a way that I'd never felt before. Was I to pervy to be in this sex shop? Maybe I am! Still I guess I must say that this a very chick friendly place. So if you girls need a dildo this is a no hassle place to get you vibe going. Me I'll stick to the internet and the plain brown packages that come in the mail. read more

"Who would write a review about their Brazilian wax? I wouldn't. What would I say? I mean, would I describe how smooth I felt afterward? Or, what if they screwed up? 'I was raw down there.' I don't think so. I don't know what I'd write. I wouldn't write about it." "You don't even have an account, honey." "I know, but if I did-" "When you do, you can write about anything you want to write about. But you obviously find the reviews valuable, I mean you just searched for a Brazilian wax and read the reviews." "Other people can do it. That's fine. I wouldn't. That's all I'm saying." That recent discussion, I think, is fitting for a "sexuality resource" center. There's certainly a line of sorts where the average person isn't going to write something like, "So, regarding the whole sex thing, life was getting REALLY drab, so my wife and I checked out the Center and they COMPLETELY revived our squeaky mattress springs. We found out, for instance, that my wife had a suppressed toe fetish! And me, I'm all about the toys. My favorites are..." Nope. So I won't tell you why I came into this store, or whether or not I purchased anything. I will add to the details other folks have contributed by saying two things: +The customer service is AMAZING, here. They've nailed the stealthy approach, where they sort of inquire off-hand about what they might help you with, and if you show a modicum of interest, they're on top of it. (I swear, I didn't plan a single one of those puns. They just spurted out.) +They carry really safe products. As the staff will tell you, plenty of products in the industry are produced with chemicals considered by many to be toxic. What's up with that? The Center refuses to sell anything which could be considered unsafe (save, of course, the dildos that Clayton referred to). Suffice it to say the place carries a sufficient variety of educational materials, health and beauty products, and entertainment options to make your lover purr with delight. Heck, he/she might just meow. Great local business. read more

If you have lived in Albuquerque or the surrounding areas for any amount of time and have a proclivity for the sexxxy, you've probably been to the Castle Superstore. Today, this is my plea to you: Don't. Go. Back. Why would you? Just down the road in East Nob Hill lies one of the greatest treasures of the Land of Enchantment: Self-Serve Sexuality Resource Center. Really! This place is an oasis in a desert of bad porn, cheap vibrators and sticky lube. Everything they carry is top notch--from porn made by/for queer folks to locally crafted kink supplies to chocolate. They sell chocolate!!! Self-Serve isn't just a "sex shop," but a full-on Resource Center, hosting classes, community events, and more. Matie and Molly have really brought something special to Albuquerque, something a whole lot of cities aren't lucky enough to have (No, really. I lived in Austin and I WISH we had something this amazing). Take advantage of the trove of sexy goodness that is in your town. Your naughty bits will thank you. read more

During Summerfest some friends and I dropped into Self Serve, because 1, that's a great name for a sexuality resource center, and 2, we thought it would be funny. Well, to mimic some other reviews, this is a really nice shop. I think sexuality resource sums it up. What it's not, is a seedy sex shop. What it is, a place with a super staff, great products, and a fun topic. There are lots of items that you can turn on and get a feel for before purchasing. And, the staff have tested the products and can give real feedback on questions. I love a place that takes the topic of sex and makes it safe and fun to talk about, all at the same time. That's a cool trick. They also offer classes... Yes, you can sign up to improve your skills. :-) that makes for some funny conversations. But, wow, Self Serve should probably be teaching Sex Ed in the schools too. read more

Great selection and super courteous and knowledgable support staff!

Very thrilling that a "sexuality resource center" run by women offering a safe and comfortable space for women, couples and LGBT folks has just opened in Albuquerque! (Full disclosure: my best friend's girlfriend and her business partner are the co-owners). The store offers a wide variety of pleasure products, including gourmet chocolates, lotions, candles, funky handbags - as well as a books, videos and quality dildos, vibrators and harnesses. Co-owners Molly & Matie, sexual health educators, have a knack for creating community space - complete with a "store dog" named Moxie and a cozy couch and table for folks to relax at. I'm looking forward to YOUR review - go check them out! read more

Self Serve is a TERRIFIC sexuality resource center. The owners are absolutely amazing and I always bring my ladies friends looking for their first "treats" to this store. It is a very comfortable atmosphere and the employees are very knowledgeable. They also have various classes to learn and "improve your technique" if you know what I mean ;) It's very clean and comfortable and all of their products are safely made. If you have toyed with the idea of visiting a sex shop, this is number one if you want to have a positive experience. read more

After occasionally dropping in to the sex shops in NYC more for a quick laugh than to make a purchase during my years back east, my first response to this place was "Wow, this is so much classier than any I've seen." Granted, NYC's shops set the bar pretty low, but this place is truly nice. I appreciated the couches in the middle of the shop that allow one to read some of the resources on sale, and I also liked that the employees were so friendly (important, you know? If they're not happy, then what does that say about the products they sell?). The selection here seems to lean more towards the educational and resource side than to the toy and pleasure side, but again, my sense of what a store like this should be like is heavily skewed by visits to stores that were way over the top and in your face. Finally, I must say that the sheer size (and width) of some of the didlos on display here will call into question every man's hood, I mean every man's manhood. read more

How could you not give this place a whooping FIVE stars? Heck, I wish there was a sixth star, or gold star, to really do it justice. More than just a sex toy store, this is also an education center, a resource center, a community space and so much more. It is clean, welcoming and clearly inclusive of all orientations, genders, relationship statuses, interests and more. Items are laid out so you can touch and feel (and turn them on in some case) before you buy them, so you're not going in blind. All toys are good quality and body friendly, so no phthalates here! Their book section is awesome; I have a HUGE sexuality book collection, and still found multiple items to add to it. Their staff is friendly, knowledgeable and outgoing while not being too in your face. You can feel comfortable asking questions about pretty much anything, or can just choose to be more solitary and browse on your own. This store is clearly a HUGE asset to Duke City, and I highly encourage anyone and everyone to stop by! read more

Annatassia ROCK'S. Went looking for some dental dams and was highly impressed with her knowledge not just the product, but the use as as well. She was able to give some hints on some of the ways enhance the use of the product for both partners experience and enjoyment. Keep up.the excellent work. read more

This is the place to look and buy fun stuff. They also have a lot of great information and offer numerous classes. The service is fantastic. You don't find it so good these days. Great selection and so much fun. I highly recommend it to guys, girls, couples. Very nice, trendy atmosphere. Very cool and very tasteful. Spice things up and explore new horizons at this cool, hip store. read more

If your sick of feeling like you need to bath in acid after entering the other stores, this is the place to go! On top of being clean Self Serve is refreshingly welcoming. The presentation of the item for sale are tasteful and interactive. The costumer service is above par, and the classes and information provided is extremely helpful! I wouldn't go to any other place in Albuquerque for my frisky needs. read more

I live in Las Vegas, the capital of sex-stores, and I only wish the owners of Sex Serve would open a store there too. I felt comfortable asking a million questions and every one of them was answered by the knowledgeable and friendly owner (one of the 2 owners I believe). The store has a relatively small selection of products, but again, I'm from Vegas; however this is because the store only stocks the high-quality, most popular items on the market... I'd also trust that they're on top of the trends in sex (no pun-intended!) and that they thoroughly do their research on the items and companies they buy from which I appreciate very much. read more

Hunter was great help! Super helpful and very knowledgeable. Great selection AND hands on with demo units to hold and run. read more

Self Serve Sexuality Resource Center - Great help and great information. For SURE worth a visit! - Adult Shops Near Me - Albuquerque, New Mexico

In a world where sex is looked at as shameful, Self Serve is a breath of fresh air. Here there is no shame, in fact sex is something to be celebrated and enjoyed by all. The atmosphere in the store is unbeatable. It is a warm and inviting place free of pesky fluorescent lights, sticky concrete floors, and seedy back entrances. The staff of kick ass ladies is always very friendly and helpful with whatever questions one may have about their products or just how one can have an all around better sex life. Self Serve has something for everyone whether you are craving delicious chocolate, independent queer porn, or both; they have you covered. Not to mention they have gone to great lengths to stock products that are actually safe for your body and that are free of nasty chemicals! I recommend Self Serve to everyone I know because I believe sex should not be something to be ashamed of. They really are the sex shop you WILL respect in the morning. read more

Beautiful place, well educated, communicative owner who granted me an interview for a project towards my degree. Gorgeous store with glowy orange/pink lighting. Tons of books...these ladies will help u understand u!! read more

This unexpected little gem of a sex shop is located in a strip mall just east of Carlisle. Not only is it a great place to discover new accoutrements for any sexy excursion but it's also wonderful community resource and educational center for those interested in delving deeper into self exploration. The owners and staff have a vast knowledge of the gear they're slinging and are apt to give you the full lowdown at the slightest flirtation of a question. read more

This shop does sexuality right. No creepy vibe, just friendly, knowledgeable, open-minded clerks/educators and tons of cool toys, books, games, and videos. They have a great social media presence and offer sales/promotions regularly. The whole country needs more shops like this! read more

This place is wonderful. I went here with some people to check it out and was surprised. They have it very nicely set up just like a typical store. It is not seedy or sleazy at all. I could see myself sipping tea in the sitting area, while looking through a copy of Enabling Romance. All of the products are placed where you can see them and the salespeople are very knowledgable about the products they carry. I was impressed by the variety of books they have in the store. The ones I looked through were very interesting. The store is small but the layout is wheelchair accessible. If I could not reach something a salesperson and even the owner was right there to help me. Everyone who works there is friendly and made me feel welcome. read more

Took an education class with the manager of the store. She did a great job of diffusing the tension of the group of women and making everyone welcome and comfortable. I learned a lot. This place is an incredible resource. It's set up like a fine boutique store and they have a fantastic selection of books. I picked up a few titles that I've never seen on Amazon or at larger adult shops in major cities. If you're in the area stop by and peruse their selection. read more

This place is great for all of your intimate needs. Did you know that intimate odds and ends aren't regulated by the FDA or anyone? That means lots of stuff out there is full of toxins. Self Serve is full of great, healthier options for you and you sweetie. Bachelorette parties are a hit here! They also have classes on all sorts of things. Just go check it out. Don't be shy! read more

LOVE this place. SO friendly. Amazingly knowledgeable staff. Go with the person you are sexual with and ask away.

Everything about this store is perfect - its' a little small, but it's great. SO super sex positive, and great for everyone (straight, gay, trans, queer, questioning.) This beats all the other adult stores in Albuquerque by a LANDSLIDE. You know that the person behind the counter won't judge you for buying whatever you want, and they do great stuff for the community (raising money for planned parenthood and other good causes). They even have interactive classes. They also have local products and feminist porn. It's a great store. read more

This place is pretty awesome! The workers are super helpful and try their very best to answer all your questions. The other great part is that all their products have been tested and things like lubricants are free of chemicals like glycerin. The only thing I wish is that the store had a little more merchandise, other than that the store is great. You should go check it out! read more

This adorable little shop in Nob Hill is a one-of-a-kind for Albuquerque. The staff are all talented, capable health and sexuality experts, and the shop is part of a small but growing trend toward sexuality resource centers. You'll feel safe and welcomed in an environment that is way more shi-shi boutique than sex shop. The products are all top quality, and the shop offers a wide variety of resources including workshops. read more

Exactly what we've been searching for. Thank you for existing.