We had our wedding at The Holly Farm in August and wholeheartedly agree with what other reviewers have said about this place. THF itself is a dream - lush, private, romantic and tropical. Since you typically rent the place for a minimum of 3 nights, yes, this place is expensive. But if you break down the price among everything that the package includes - you're getting housing for 20, housekeeping service during your stay, setup and take down of chairs, tables and decorations for your ceremony and reception, lawn games for your guests, and countless other details that make your wedding day as stress free as can be - you'll find the price to be reasonable if not a real value.
For us, the highlights were the privacy (no sounds of cars whizzing by during your ceremony), being able to party all night long (since you've got the place for 3 nights, there's no Cinderella deadline to pull the plug on your party at the stroke of midnight), and a dream in the form of Erin Moses. From the start, Erin was detailed, organized, accommodating, patient and fun. She's everything you could ever dream of in a wedding planner and consultant - times a hundred.
We opted for a casual & elegant, garden-style wedding with a focus on food, booze and fun. Our overriding priority was to have fun at our own wedding and not get sidelined by trivial details. That being said, The Holly Farm is a well oiled machine. They've got great recommendations for vendors (with the exception of catering, you can pick your own vendors and supply your own alcohol) and a venue layout that is customized for weddings (e.g. an outdoor (covered) Spanish tile dance floor complete with an alcove for a live band or DJ, two bars and multiple areas designated for hors d'oeuvres, buffet service, etc. that keep guests flowing from one part of the site to the next), and unbelievable service. From parking attendants to greeters, programs, ushers, you name it, they provide top notch service with a vibe that is professional without being pretentious or stuffy. This place is perfect for anyone looking to break free from the wedding bandwagon.
If you do decide to have your wedding here, here's a list of ideas and vendors that we loved:
(1) DJ & MC: Antonio Diaz (Soundshine Mobile Entertainment) - one of Erin's top picks, and it's not difficult to see why. Antonio MC'd our wedding party intros on top of DJ'ing our wedding - he interacted with guests, kept the party going by reading our guests preferences and adapting the music to keep the dance floor going - and served up a cool, easygoing and professional vibe.
(2) Flowers: pick your own herbs at The Earthbound Farm stand just up the road. All the girls took a trip to Earthbound the day before to pick their own bouquets and boutonnieres for the groomsmen. Janna Jo went out of her way to provide a tour of the herb garden, offer some great tips and techniques, and brewed up an amazing iced herbal tea! She even offered to let us store our herbs in their walk-in fridge overnight. All in all, about $60 for 8 bouquets and 20 boutonnieres. Not to mention, it's a fun girls activity (Earthbound's even got a cafe that serves up panini sandwiches and tasty frozen yogurt).
(3) Cake: Patisserie Bechler. We're sugar snobs (our baseline is Tartine Bakery in SF), but not superficial ones. Gerard Bechler's cakes were not only delicious but amazingly, reasonably priced. We ended up ordering three cakes (brie au kirsch, st. michel, and princess). Gerard decorated the cakes simply and beautifully with some chocolate flowers and curls (standard decorations, so no extra fee), which were assembled at varying heights by Grapes of Wrath catering.
(4) Photo clothesline: THF doesn't really have an ideal area for wedding slide shows. Instead, we did a photo clothesline: photos were clipped to twine using mini clothespins (Erin found two perfect spots to set this up). Not only can guests and family members take their time looking through photos without having to listen to sappy music, we interspersed wood escort hang tags between the photos - overall, it blended in perfectly with the venue.
(5) Photo booth: Snap Cubby - like THF, Snap Cubby's got great service, value and delivers! The photo booth provided hours of nonstop giggles for all ages and provided a welcome option to guests that don't like to dance. THF's got the perfect spot for the photo booth right next to the dance floor.
(6) Solo guitarist (ceremony): Les Farrington. We found and booked Les through gigmasters.com and found him to be professional and accommodating. He was patient (we selected our ceremony music less than a week before the wedding) and helped us personalize our ceremony music to include a blend of classical (Bach, Beethoven) and rock (Beatles - "And I Love Her").
THF really is a magical place, and Erin is very much the fairy godmother. read more