I have never been to the Rail before, although I do know the area well. I often have an early Sunday dinner at a little wonderful Italian Restaurant just down Fifth Avenue called Restaurant Parma. Finding a parking space can be challenging. There are just a few blue handicapped parking spaces located nearby to the Rail. I went to the Oscar Night Party. The VIP charge was just $50.00, for which you received a full meal served by waiters with unlimited Champagne also offered. The party was hosted by the Gay Men's Chorus of San Diego, and it was great fun. There were also raffles, prizes and singing by the Chorus. I even one two tickets to see MJ (Michael Jackson) the San Diego Civic Theater in May! read more

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The bartenders are so nice! They are very attentive and the drinks were typical of gay bars, That being said, we came on karaoke day on Saturday around 3pm and I will say it wasn't busy, but when we tried to put in a song , the WHITE DJ told me and my Hispanic friend we were not able to sing because they were fully booked, but transparently, there were 3 other senior citizens groups in the bar. It was not busy. I will say all the patrons were white. We didn't think anything of it at the time, but another WHITE group came in and they let them sing; and right after, the Dj sang himself!! If patrons want to sing at an event you're a WORKER for, they should take president. I will NEVER come to this RACIST BAR AGAIN! read more

I hate giving them this low of a rating, but I'm averaging out all of my experiences. Last night we came for Puta Lucha, which was so fun! I think the event itself was organized well, but the event on the patron side was not. Everyone was just kind of shoving themselves in wherever they wanted, ticket or no. I also asked if I could use a seat for ADA, since I can't stand for longer then 10 minutes. Which they did provide, but it was at the back of the bar where everyone else was already sitting... I felt like an after thought. Which I get maybe it was chaotic, but the bar itself needs to have ADA in mind. There are some interesting people here, a really wide spread group. Some are nice, some are rude and so clueless I was stood directly in front of or hit by 3 different people while in my "ADA " seat. The floors were sticky from the moment we walked in. But at least it seemed cleaned otherwise. Staff at the bar itself were very nice!! The restrooms were ADA Accessible for sure. I have also been here for karaoke and another drag show. Karaoke is a rough one, I will never go back. Seems to cater to only a few. Drinks are good and just what I want. Overall I will have to stick with my usual haunts and start passing on this bar more often, which sucks, but it is clearly not the place for me. read more

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This legendary Hillcrest gayborhood bar and club has friendly folks and amazing Happy Hour that goes till 8pm featuring $4 beers and $8 cocktails and pitchers. Big spaces and nice dance floors, with windows wide open on two sides of the building. The last Friday of each month is country line dancing! Free lessons, so fun! read more

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Great time here. Saturday nights are the best. They have events throughout the week. If you like more a chill vibe come earlier before the party crowd. read more

We came in because of the deal they had advertised but I think it was misleading. They had one that said $8 for a pitcher but the pitcher is the size of a glass and they charged more anyway. That wouldnt have been too bad since its still a bit of a deal but the staff was very rude (which is something I never say). When we asked for the $8 pitcher and he asked which one, we said the one that was $8, he said he still needed to know, so we got the hazy. When he gave us a higher bill, we asked why it wasnt $8 and he said "tell me what you got" multiple times even when we asnwered to drill in that it was a hazy and not whatever the other one was even though we originally tried to order it. Overall I think we probably just had a one off bad experience but I probably wont be back. read more

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The bartender lost my card and gave it to another patron. I went to close my tab out within 20 minutes of giving her the card and it was gone. Service was okay otherwise but don't take a card if you aren't going to do your job and take care of it. read more

The bartenders were quick and sociable. Wasn't really a busy night so it was not hard to get anything from bar. Watch a great show with good ppl around. The lighting in the bar was very chill and not too flashy. Didn't try any food since we ate before coming out. Definitely would come back again. read more

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I came in here a couple weeks ago for my friends birthday celebration with all his friends.. I went to the bar to order myself a high noon, and the bartender was extremely rude to me. I asked him what time happy hour ended, he told me the answer. I replied "okay cool, thank you!" I then asked what flavors of high noon he had and he sarcastically and angrily replied "Oh, you're just full of questions aren't you?!!" I asked for the tequila passion fruit because I could literally see it physically in the fridge. He told me "We don't have any passion fruit" but I pointed at it and said "Oh i see it in your fridge right there" Then I tried to pay with apple pay, which i use everywhere i go and have never once had a problem with, and for some reason his machine didn't work. He was super rude about it already the first time and then we tried again, and it still didn't work. He got angry at me and said "Omg just take it, be more prepared next time, taking money out of MY pockets out of my paycheck" ....... I never asked for a free drink, i was very respectful and ordered 1 drink, and tried to pay for it, then go about my day. It's not my fault his machine wasn't working. He embarrassed and disrespected me in front of everyone at the bar so badly, that I had 6 different people come up to me after asking if I was okay, and that they had seen how mean he was to me, and attempted cheering me up. I worry that the reason I was treated this way is because i'm a woman in a predominantly MALE gay club.... I am a GAY woman who should feel SAFE and respected and welcome in a GAY bar. As If this wasn't traumatizing enough, a man walked by me right after the interaction with the bar tender and said "I saw that whole interaction, you handled it horrible, get "TF" out of here, this is a gay bar " Rude staff, and rude people who linger there. I have warned all of my other lesbians about this bar, this is not a safe place. I highly do not recommended coming to this bar, unless you're in the mood to get treated like garbage trash & hate crimed :))) Shame on you, especially during pride month when we're supposed to be spreading love. Happy SD pride!!!! read more

Friends and I came here to celebrate our friend's birthday we got bottle service and hung out in the VIP area. The VIP area is air conditioned so it feels much nicer there lol The workers were very cool! Shots and drinks were a decent price. I really don't remember all the details of this place, but I do remember having a really good time! Come hang out here if you don't feel like hanging with the crowd at Rich's or Gossip Grill! read more

The Rail is the oldest gay bar in San Diego, and you can feel that history the moment you walk in. It's a place that has truly evolved with the community while still honoring its roots. What makes The Rail especially unique is how much the vibe changes depending on the event. One night you might catch an electric drag show, another you'll find lively karaoke, and on weekends you might stumble into a full-on circuit party. Each event brings its own crowd and energy, so there's always something new to experience. Because of that variety, there really is something for everyone--you just have to find the night that fits you best. No matter when you go, though, the bar staff is consistently fantastic: friendly, fast, and always ready to make you feel welcome. If you're looking for a place with deep roots, diverse events, and a warm community feel, The Rail is absolutely worth a visit. read more

Definitely a comfortable place to come, they have all sorts of events and different things that are inclusive and fun. Erica and Roberto behind the bar have always been so kind and welcoming which makes coming here so much better because quality service is always important. I recommend Monday's if you want a more relaxed and chill space. Overall, an amazing place to be and I'll definitely continue to keep coming to support, also drinks are priced wonderfully. read more

The floor was sticky and the cocktail with ranch water and Don Julio was awfully strong.. we had missed the drag show.. and there was chaffing dishes with some type of food. Judging on first impressions, I don't think I will come back unless the gogo dancers are there... I've seen quite a few shocking patron outfits that allude that anything goes like as if at Folsom street fair. Out of my chosen gay bars... #1 bar is by far my favorite along with MO's. Maybe service was off due to a busy brunch drag show. read more

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ive been here twice already in which both times i go celebrating a birthday they have amazing music and a lot of friendly clientele however the bartenders will try to take advantage of people that seem drunk when it comes to their money! yesterday my friend and i were about to get our third round of drinks which were the watermelon redbull margaritas the tall black woman bartender didnt even use half of ONE redbull to make TWO drinks and when me and my friend tried to grab the rest of the redbull which we were GOING TO PAY FOR the other bartender with glasses and the pixie cut told us we had to pay $6 extra dollars for the rest of the red bull wtf!!! the two previous rounds we had already gotten we never once had to pay extra for the red bulls and they actually used two entire cans for the drinks and the second time the guy actually gave us the rest of the cans to take to our table i just think its bullshit that the bartenders try to take advantage of peoples money weirdos!! i hope this establishment gets better people as employees read more

Been here maybe 10 times. Sometimes for burlesque shows. Sometimes just passing by and hear the music. Sometimes to start my night. Had I written this review a few months ago I would have given it a 4 star. But since management changed hands it's been a pretty odd experience the few times I been in the last 3ish month. The bouncer / person checking IDs has given me the side eye with a look of disgust both times they have checked me in and the third time he said something about my ID photo which caused me to leave before even entering. There's never more than 30 people in here at any given night that I've been. The music isn't that great on the Friday and Saturday nights I been here. But at least the drinks aren't too bad. I think it's a bit expensive for the quality you're getting but it's semi strong so I guess that balances it ouI think the beers are a better deal as you're only paying 6 maybe 7 dollars for one and it last longer. I've interacted with a handful of their bartenders and really only two of them have greeted me and my friends with a smile. It's starting to feel like if you aren't queer enough in mannerisms or outfit then you're not welcome here. Haven't been here for food, not sure if they even have a kitchen but if they do, I probably wouldn't anyways. Doesn't give me a clean enough vibe to want to eat here. I'll continue to go here as long as they have burlesque shows. But other than that. I probably spend my money elsewhere. read more

I came here with some friends to watch a burlesque show on Saturday, March 8, 2025. I ordered one vodka soda and one red bull with vodka (2 drinks total) from the bar and was overcharged $29 on my credit card. I tried calling multiple times the next day to speak to a manager, but no one would answer my call. My calls would ring and then disconnect without the ability to leave a voicemail message. Watch out for overcharged bills. read more

Came during happy hour, 3PM-8PM, and had a tequila sour for $5 !!! Love me a $5 well. Great service, great dancers, fun vibes!!! Love it!

I needed help, had no phone and no way to call anyone at 3 AM and the security guard refused to call anyone for me. He walked away and I had to find someone else to help me and let me use their phone. Don't feel safe here and won't be going back. I know that perhaps 1 employee does not represent the entire business, but all I asked was for the man to make a phone call for me so at least I know someone would come for me while I waited. Thankfully some very nice bartenders from Number One on Fifth stopped to help me and made sure I was safe. Won't be coming back here again. read more

$25 of Lame. I feel like if a bar/club is under new ownership and making a comeback, there's some hubris in charging $25 for a NEW party, O'so Sucia. It was underattended and fairly sparse. I might suggest charing a $10 cover and building a following vs. charging more an scaring people away, shooting yourself in the foot before you can get going. This may be poor management, but I paid and I attended so the joke's on me. What isn't excusable though is the common bar problem of ordering 7-up and getting soda. I know it must be hard for a bartender to know when one clear drink has dried up and turned into another, but at $12.00 a drink, I expect that to be solved. This was a premium-priced experience, when I got an unpleasant cocktail and an empty dancefloor. Our money is worth more. read more

Ok, after a few years I revisited The Rail and things have changed for the positive. I got to stay on the bar this time with no shoves. The bartenders were very nice, the music was pumping, and the drinks were Hillcrest Strong. I enjoyed my visit very much and was relieved that I could, at last, give this San Diego legend its proper due. Do visit. Enjoy. read more

The worst service. Literally watch them let people the know in while there was an hour line. Luckily I wasn't in the line but feel very bad for the people that were. Very caddy staff. Reminds me of mean girls, with the bouncer being Regina. read more

Got there at 2am and had a great time with the bar situation was better organized and the DJ was horrible lol but cute lol vibe for sure not many people perfect spot for the antisocial read more

I've been here before, I thought the music was really good and drinks were reasonably priced. I like all the flyers on the website. There's a link in the description. I think I like the HOUSE RULES night if I were to go again. It sounds like a party I went to in the bay area, something like audiofunk or audio fun. I would check this out if you are traveling from out of town. A must visit. Thank you. read more

Drinks are very affordable and a welcoming place of LGBTQ+ allies. I won at giant Jenga, so that's 5 stars.

Some businesses are greedy, some businesses are irresponsible... As a bar, The Rail manages both at once... Charging $6 for a small bottle of water is absurd and they should be ashamed of themselves for trying to make a few extra bucks on the back of those who want to go out without getting intoxicated. And their staff seems to think that patrons being there is a nuisance to there. In a almost post-covid world, I am very selective on where I go out because I certainly don't do it as much as I used to... And I want to have a good time. The Rail fails miserably read more

Management definitely changed. I used to avoid this place. No crazy cover charges. Drinks aren't a million dollars anymore. Fun events. Whatever happened please keep doing what you are doing. read more

If you don't like The Rail, you don't like to party. Junior DJs every Monday, which is awesome and The Rail is always a stop on the circuit during both Pride and Cityfest. The drinks are cold, the vibe is friendly, and while not the cheapest bar you don't go broke here. Give this place some props, friends. They were on the forefront of making Hillcrest a great place to both live and play, and they're still one of the funnest bars (gay or straight) in the neighborhood! read more

I'm really bummed to write this review but I feel it necessary to share about the bizarre and downright unpleasant experience I had last night. My spouse and I attended the Sabados En Fuego event. For the sake of context and clarity, we are both members of the LGBTQ+ community, albeit straight-presenting/passing to some. We'd been walking around Hillcrest and were looking for a place to go dancing. We got to the door, had our IDs checked, I had my backpack checked, and we were both wanded prior to entry. There was no cover charge, which I thought was pretty cool too. We walked inside the club and it looked less busy than I'd have expected for anywhere in Hillcrest after 10pm on a Saturday night. Nonetheless, the music was good and I figured a smaller crowd might be easier for me to handle with my social anxiety issues, so we walked over to the dance floor and started dancing. I have bad knees and can only dance so much for so long and my spouse suggested we take a seat to catch our breath for a moment. I had put my backpack and sweater down on a booth seat while I was dancing, so we went and sat down in that area, which, for the record, was unmarked with any signage to indicate that it was a VIP/bottle service area. Additionally, we did not see anyone else sitting there with a bottle. It seemed like no sooner did we sit down than we were approached by a security guard who informed us that he "would have to ask us to leave" because we had inadvertently sat down in the VIP/bottle service area. There was no offer of having us pay for VIP/bottle service so that we could stay and I was too afraid to clarify if "leave" meant the area or the club itself. Getting up and walking to the door with the security guard closely tailing behind us, though, gave me the feeling it was likely the latter. I was honestly mortified and pretty disappointed. I'd have never sat down there if I had known it was a 'restricted' area. I just wanted to dance and, subsequently, I just wanted to rest my body momentarily. Neither my spouse nor I meant to cause any trouble and the attitude with which we were approached seemed like a disproportionate response to an innocent mistake. Between our time spent dancing and our time spent sitting, we were barely there maybe 20 minutes in total before being asked to leave by security. I still cannot understand why us sitting down in an *unmarked* booth was misinterpreted as such a grievous offense. We'd have been happy to stay and buy drinks -- we might have even considered purchasing VIP/bottle service had that option been presented to us before we were unceremoniously bounced from the club. Unfortunately, it seems our 20 minute visit to The Rail will have been our first and last one. read more

I came for the CRSSD after dark event for blondish and the sound was unbelievable. Probably the best speakers in San Diego.

First impression was that the security guard and bartender were in a bad mood what is not what to expect on a Thursday night. The night ended with a mess that was not well resolved by the manager, which means the place is poorly managed. The security, bartender and manager were treating some costumers with a lot of rudeness and disrespect. Whatever the problem was, the lack of management capacity on the part of the employees and especially on the part of the manager was visible. It was a completely unpleasant situation to behold, which could be resolved again, with deft management. Never coming back, and telling all my friends to not go there as well. read more

Love the music in here. Drinks are a solid pour, great value for the money. The location can't be beat, right in the middle of all the action in Hillcrest! read more

The 1 star is just for the dj playing good music on Saturday. The bartenders are so rude. I ordered a couple drinks and shots. I paid with my card and as usual for the tip I wrote "cash" because I was going to tip in cash but before I can get the money out of my pocket the bartender yells at me "WHERE IS THE CASH??!!" I was a bit thrown off and he starts pointing at the receipt and once again yells at me for the cash. At that moment I decided not to leave a tip. How are you demanding for a tip. So damn rude. read more

Came in before the rush. Big Mike took care of us, super awesome service (deserved ALL THE TIPS!). Very fun and inclusive space.

Had so much fun here last night. I attended my first Ball and had a blast. My only advice was to see if the air could be circulating better. The back by the for is super cold and the front where the show is, is warmer. It was cold outside and cold in the back of the restaurant. read more

I am very disappointed that on pride weekend I had my friends waiting in line and brass Personel asking if we had tix, and it turned out that it was inclusive and females where not permitted to enter. They ask aid to leave if you had a female in our group. After waiting 30 min. in line they told us that females are no welcomed. I was disappointed do to equality and diversity and the people that spoke out where not let in. This was very sad and very surprised that the owner will let this happen! I will not come back to this club if this type of discrimination continues! read more

My review is for 09/17!! We loved it here. We came for their latin night. The club was great!!! Dj was cool and took and honored song requests! And bartenders were great! The cutie with the jello shots was SO NICE and welcoming. And also the front door bouncer was nice and warm and welcoming! From the door up until closing we felt welcomed. It wasn't packed (which we enjoyed) and the environment was clean. The cover fee was affordable. Bathrooms were also clean! We would recommend and come here again. read more

I'd been to this place a few years ago for dancing, and came back recently for happy hour. They have undergone an awesome remodel and the new setup is great! They had a great selection of drinks, including cider and good IPAs. We enjoyed their happy hour snackies and the staff was really nice. Dustin in particular took excellent care of us. read more

Stumbled into this bar while hanging out in the area. Wes & Parker are great bartenders; enjoyed loads of laughs, entertainment and conversation. We learned all about the 'Hillcrest Pour' while watching Scream 2. Great music, lots of space for dancing too. read more

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Walked in on a beautiful Sunday afternoon after 330. Only two customers were seated inside. The bar had a table tent indicating happy hour everyday and with $8 premium well drinks. I ordered a kettle one with soda and was charged $10. When I asked the bartender, she said "oh the computer puts it in that way. Besides I think that's an old table tent." Huh?? The bartender made no effort to correct the price. Moreover, if it were an old ad why still have them placed? This place truly needs new management or a new owner or both. I cannot recommend it. They are not customer-focused. Better bars with better value in the area. read more

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Every time I go to the Rail I am constantly reminded why I dislike this establishment. for the smallest dance floor, and the shittiest of drinks they have the audacity to charge a cover that is equal to or higher than Richs'! The bar staff ALWAYS has an attitude. Music is terrible. The crowd is a young 21-25 year demographic. I believe these kids only stay at this bar because they don't really understand how terrible it is. If they were to spend some time at First on Fifth or Urban Mos' they would realize the Rail is simply a money hungry establishment. I dislike this bar soooo much. The only time I go is when Im dragged there with friends. I utterly despise paying a cover for a bar that has the audacity to charge me 9 dollars for a bottom shelf gin&tonic read more