BEAUTIFUL BLACK WOMEN RUNNN!!!! It is not often I write a review especially a bad review, honestly probably never have on restaurant. So to the point, (PLEASE READ ENTIRELY), I waited a month before posting a review because I understand how negative reviews can hurt a company, however, the treatment I received is nothing to ignore because I can't stop thinking about it. I came in alone as I often do other places to wind down somewhere high-end classy and fine dining. All to sit at the bar and get physically and verbally "assaulted" "bullied" or "violated" one of these words fit...by a PATRON yes... Too be clear this was a customer, a older white man 6ft something approached me on more than 5 occasions and touched my hair, back, and arms and started to tell me him and his wife like women. I was very clear that I did not want anything to do with the duo, I said quote "I hate women" because i just wanted this to END, and when he walked away the 2nd time I let both male and female bartenders know how uncomfortable and embarrassed I was. They actually looked at me 1st, I explained everything to the bartenders and he came over again and again, These people did NOTHING to help me, they did not stand up for me or even get a manager, even his friend tried to get him but he was too "into" me to pay attention to the ques. The manager Chip even stared at me from the corner of the bar at the last instance and you guessed it NOTHING. I could not even enjoy my overpriced meal, I felt horrible and I felt like had I spoke up for myself I would look like black girl gone mad especially because my hair was fro like, no other black people were in the area that I could see besides the workers and i was just felt defeated. I was dying inside and everyone knew it from the look on my face and my body language. The guy and the girl bartender made comments on the guys behavior but NEVER while he was there. It made me so horribly sad I can barely explain. Had I been a blonde hair woman and a big 6ft3 black man was harassing me, and feeling me up NO DOUBT in my mind the way things would have changed. The way I was left to hang with this old ass white man doing and saying whatever he wanted to me in an establishment like this will bother me forever. I tried to handle this with grace and I feel like I failed myself and I should have lost it. I go to the most high-end of places almost 4 times a week Smith &Wollensky, Guild-house, The Pearl just to name a few and I also bartend at a very nice restaurant I will not name and NEVER would I EVER had been treated like this or let any of my customers feel this way. I am crying right now just as I did after leaving this place after I spoke to the manager CHIP, that night to no true prevail. Only to say it is a learning curve for his staff and he will talk to them. WTF I am a human, and a woman who was dining alone and was in open view harassed by a man with his wife that was 3 chairs away. Why would the bar staff allow this???? I spoke to them and told them what he was saying and how creeped out I was. What kind of a mess of an "upscale diner is this??? Honestly, I was shaking because I know how little the world thinks of me because I am a black woman but this undoubtedly will be stamped in my mind forever as the WORST DINING EXPERIENCE IN MY LIFE.
P.S The creepy old man asked if I wanted a drink I rolled my eyes and he goes on to pay for my meal after seeing how irritated I was, and this bartender says at least he paid for your meal. Readers, please listen clearly, on 1 hand I am proud of myself for not reacting, but you have no idea how much I wanted to jump across that bar when she said that as if I was some dirty tramp that was out looking to get felt up for a FREE MEAL, ... I was FURIOUS as hell. I got on snap chat and cried to my friends literally about my experience all the way to my car and had to wait 20 mins to get myself together before I could drive. WORST DINING EXPERIENCE EVER FROM A WOMAN THAT FINE DINES 4+ DAYS PER WEEK, 2X COLLEGE GRAD, SOCIAL BUTTERFLY, AND ALSO A FOOD SERVICE WORKER............ read more