First time for us. Great experience. Check in and tour was wonderful and easy. Made us feel very welcome and happy to answer questions. We did not eat but had several drinks. Very nice servers. Staff came around to check on us. Asked if we had questions. Very low key. No pressure. People there were very nice. No assholes. Can I say that? Lol. Ambiance is nice. Not too bright but well lit. Karaoke was happening in one area. Fun. Lots of places to play in the open or more privately. Immediate staff attention to used play areas. Quickly cleaned and made ready for next folks. We will definitely go back! read more

My wife and I went on newbie night, showed up after 9 pm and left immediately after the mandatory tour. Paid $80, despite their website saying entry would be $50 and spent less than twenty minutes inside. The facility is designed like a carnival fun house, is very dimly lit, overbearing music, was so filthy, the poor lighting couldn't hide it, and smelled of stale cigarette smoke, akin to having a ashtray strapped to your face, mold and mildew throughout. The dress code was absolutely not enforced, and meant nothing. Despite clear rules against any play happening near food or beverage areas, this was not enforced. The ratio of single men to women was roughly 20 to 1, and each and every one of them had that disturbing, unsettling predatory stare. The owners room names were joiked at by staff as clever, and not to be taken literally, were in poor taste. First impression of staff after that comment is that they're unhappy with management. Shame on the owners and the staff for continuing to keep this third world brothel in business. Have higher standards. Shame on the city of Portland health inspectors for allowing food and liquor to be served in this establishment. We do not recommend the velvet rope, and will never return. read more

The pizza was delicious. All staff was so courteous and polite. I had such a great time. Met a lot of amazing people. This is my first club experience. Let me tell you it was beyond my expectations. I will be going back very soon. I loved the vibe of everyone. Keep up the excellent work everyone that keeps the place welcoming and safe. read more

Great food, good people, and good drinks. Kind of a hit or miss on how busy it is though. Seems to be super clean and well mood lit. I enjoyed myself and have been a few times now. And will go again when I have the time. The staff was amazing. They made sure people were safe and following the rules. They were very concerned and always on the look out for inappropriate behavior and were not/don't seem to be afraid to enforce the rules and are not afraid to kick people out and/or ban them for misbehaving. read more

Absolutely amazing staff and people. The food is delicious and the bartenders make amazing cocktails. Definitely my favorite place to go o the weekends! read more

TVR is a great place. Body positive, good food and great community. It is more...cis het couple/swinger focused place, but the staff is amazing at creating a safe space. If you're respectful and talk to people, you'll have fun! They do have gendered pricing, and are not really ada accessible. Play in open, play in private, play with friends new or old, the night is what you make of it. read more

I attended this club for the first time expecting a safe and well-managed experience. Instead, I ended up physically incapacitated after participating in an electroplay demo offered by one of their vendors. There was no waiver, no safety briefing, no warning of risks, just a vendor offering hands-on play without any screening or consent process. I became extremely dizzy, nauseous, lost vision and hearing, and had to leave the event early. My partner had to help carry me out. The vendor never checked in, even though I was visibly slumped over just feet away from him. Afterward, I reached out to the club multiple times to share what happened. It took several follow-ups just to receive a generic, impersonal response with no apology, no accountability, and no clear indication that anything would change. This event was expensive, and I left feeling unsafe, ignored, and disappointed. I can't recommend a venue that allows vendors to operate this carelessly and then shows so little concern when someone gets seriously affected. read more

This adult club has gone through many renovations . It is now beautiful and comfortable. No cell phones are allowed, so there are no images to share. Sorry. They have food, drink, a pool table, ample floor space, a dance floor, a stripper pole, and private areas for just the two of you. Rules are strictly upheld, and boundaries are expected to be respected. Which helps everyone feel safe. read more

This place used to be so cool. My friends and I would come in all the time. The past few times were pretty terrible. Last time that I really enjoyed it was when the hostess with the mostest Sabrina was there. Well, good luck without her. read more

Such a fun space to meet interesting people. Great pool tables, wonderful upstairs bar staff, dance floor is amazing and the bar staff on main floor keeps us happy while the dj plays so many great dance hits, and all the rooms in between. Every experience is worth it! Safety is a high priority from parking area, front door security check and within the club itself. Just love the crowd and the over all vibe! Pizza is always a good menu choice and servers are always friendly and accommodating. Love, love, this gem! read more

Went for the first time last weekend. What a total disappointment. First off, the lady checking us in was super rude. She was nasty, mean, and very much not welcoming. We almost left just based on her attitude alone. She knew it was our first visit and she also made sure it would be our last. We went in and got the tour. The place is very dirty and run-down. My girl actually commented it felt unsafe. It was greasy, filthy, and not very comfortable at all for play or sensuality. The bartender downstairs was very helpful and friendly. The guy giving the tour was fine. The people that were there to have a good time were less than desirable. I know attraction is a subjective term, but the options on this night were not appealing to myself or my girlfriend. There was actually a single male that looked homeless simply walking around by himself and just kept walking around lurking. It was very unsettling. We left after a few hours and chalked it up as a learning experience. We would never return. Again, the lady that checked us in, I believe her name was kat, was just so very rude. It was rough to recover from her awful first impression. read more

Try the chicken pizza and wings. While you typically don't go to a swingers club for food, I was pleasantly surprised!

Our first visit to the velvet rope was an excellent experience. Kristen who works the door was very friendly and funny made us feel right at home from the start. The club was well lit, clean and fun. Enjoyed the hot tub. Shout out to our bartender Lincoln, very cool guy. So many fun things to do. Kudos to David the owner, you've done a really great job with your club. Cool people,no judgment. We really love this place. if you're looking for a fun adult night out, give it a try. read more

Kink Night is the best. I absolutely loved getting publicly spanked! This club is Awesome on some nights, but on those rare nights that don't have many people, it's a very expensive pool game. I love the crowd, respectful with a broad age range. It's a chill place to shoot some pool, have a drink and meet like-minded people. I'd like to see more action in the open but I get it that not everyone is an exhibitionist. Tends not to get going until closer to midnight. Highly recommended+ read more

This place is great one of the best place to go. Even if your new to this kinky world or been in it for years. This place is for you.

Mi amiga and I went here for her 21rst. Squad goal was hook up and thank U, next. The people at front were super helpful and gave us a tour. We couldn't take our phone tho so no pics ((:\ The DJ guy introduced himself upstairs (more about him later). The rooms were cringy and needed better aesthetics. Most of the guys were sus and we were trying to figure out what to do so we played pool upstairs. Drinks were V! Some Zaddies came up to us, (nah we good). The owner or manager was fine and introduced us to a couple who was cool and we decided to all go make out in this loft. another guy came up too who was cute and got on the bed with us but then a bunch of other guys came in and we got nervous. They were from Nigeria and so my friend and I (and the girl) went into the hot tub and made out. Those same guys got in the hot tub later. We all fooled around cause there was no one else. Then we got out when one of them got too forceful and we went into the club area and started dancing on the poles. Those guys followed us again. One of the employees saw what was happening and talked to those guys and they never bothered us after that. So it was GUCCI, no problem. In the club all eyes were on us and that was hott. The DJ from upstairs came and talked to us and invited us to sing karaoke. We did and sang naked and he rapped something sexy. So then we were def liking the DJ and a bunch of us went into this private area VIP or something with him and F*CK! all I can say is GOAT sex. We were still in the middle and one of the employees knocked on the door and said it was closing time. Uh we weren't DONE! read more

Pretty amazing place. We went on Halloween when it was late and it sucks that hours are cut so short. The tour was very good because it made us comfortable. (First timers) and the hot tub looks awesome!!! So freaking big! Getting drinks sorta sucked bc it was a wait time, spendy drinks and it wasn't too busy read more

Great fun. My girl did a gangbang and we have mixed it up with a number of couples. Best if your over 30.

This place is great and fun. Staff if very nice and very helpful and if there is anything that makes you feel uncomfortable or unsafe they try to make things right. The people that volunteer there are also great and very fun too. The food and drinks are Top notch as well. I can't wait to go back every weekend and see the new people and freind I have meet there. read more

Great place to socialize, meet new people and be a little adventurous if you're game. Management is top notch. Wish it was just a little bigger, at least in the private areas. read more

It feels really good to be appreciated, the way my VR fam has made me feel. But I wish I could do something more to show my appreciation for them all than just keeping the play spaces tidy, and I will figure out something for those guys, but ya'll have to know.. Heather's energy is infectious, it doesn't matter how shitty the day has been, the moment I see her smiling through the crazyness like a blood spattered warrior, I know it's going to be a good night. All you have to do is pass by this girl on your way to change sheets and you know she's got your back and together you got this shit licked. She is a powerhouse, a life breather, a leader, shes a goddamn lady Leonidas. Jack is an epic cook, his food keeps me running all night. When I just need a moment to breath, or have that quick embarrassing question, hes my go to as well. He is quick with the compliments and keeps me feeling good about myself in moments of doubt. He has a soft heart where you know you can land if you need to, like a dumpling. He is soul food. Hydra and Mike keep the place a party with great music, drinks and great personalities. Willing to play your favorite song when you need it, provide you some laughs, stiff drinks and a ton of entertainment, I don't think parties could be complete without these two. Hydra particulary is a monolith to self expression in my book and without her and all that paint, all the paint, her encouragement, I don't know I would have ever felt free enough to relax and just do me. And Alexis, all of this, all that VR is has been made possible by her. She is the special ingredient, the spice, the foundation, the rich soil that VR grows from, that people grow from. She is the sashay and swing in the hips of life. She is why I try to give my all every night I volunteer at VR. It's not the free drinks and credits for free nights, it is what Alexis and VR have given me from the beginning. VR has given me a place for my skin, something I never felt I had, a place to safely unpackage it without fear. VR has helped me see the attractive woman people have been telling me about for years. Its given me back my confidence and capacity for self love. It's given me a community of fellow deviants, and it's given me a place to express myself freely. There is no words and no actions that can ever fully express my gratitude for that. I see these wonderful souls as family, and VR feels something like a second home. Everyone, including the volunteers I didn't name are wonderful, they all make this place, this incredible crew, and I love all of them, and I love VR. I hope to stick around for a long long time and continue to show my gratitude for everything this place, this crew has done for me. read more

I am new to Portland , from Santa Barbara County I have to say that Portland is very exciting for a person like me . Just a few weeks , I received an invite into this wonderful Club by the kind owners themselves. I plan on returning and maybe trying out the spas ! I was also really impressed with the various rooms and areas to talk with friends, new people & have your own experiences. Live adult videos playing in various rooms - and 2 poles for teasing your guests.. 2 bars ! 2 pool tables ! Security that you just don't feel stare or you really don't see them and odds are they'll talk to you and offer a massage haha - It's a great club if you're a warm & social or reserved & private person , or both! You will feel comfortable with this place it really stands out ! Just an honest, humanist & sex positive atmosphere. I don't believe you have to be me to have this experience here .I believe a lot of people will get treated like royalty at The Velvet Rope. Like I mentioned above, I will be coming back ! Muaw! Wen read more

The Velvet Rope - Just me ! - Social Clubs Near Me - Portland, Oregon

I had a lovely time with my husband. It was slightly pricey to be a member but we will go back again and hopefully it will be just as fun this time as it was last time. Here's to the sexual revolution! read more

I am a disabled person with a wheelchair, who enjoys getting out into the community and meeting new people, so I went out to the Velvet Rope with my staff to give it a try. A couple things tipped us off that something was weird; the aggressively gendered pricing and double-standards in their dress code made it feel like the space does not acknowledge or honor the nuances in gender identity and expression, and that femme bodies are expected to be on display and commodified to higher-paying masculine patrons (which are things my staff can confirm from their own experiences). That was just from the website, so not to a great start. However we were aware of the longevity of the space, which gave us hope that they have taken steps to address issues and make strides to be as accessible as possible, so we still decided to go. In previous spaces, my staff would be able to get in free, or at least discounted, due to them not playing while on shift, and that their presence is to cover my care needs. This was not allowed, so we had to sign up as a "couple," which you may imagine has weird implications. But We signed up for the year, as it wouldn't have made much difference if we just paid for the night. We were discussing the parameters of the space with the staff and how it might compare to experiences in other similar spaces, and some weirdly stringent rules started to pop up immediately. First, usually once we are settled my staff will usually give me my privacy to enjoy the adult nature of the space. We were informed first that they must be within eyesight of me at all times, but it was soon amended to not leaving my side. This was odd, as we were happy to work with staff to make this happen however possible, but the idea was shut down no questions asked. We were determined to be flexible, so we agreed, but it didn't take long for the next thing to come up. I use my own cup for accessibility reasons, which I was told was forbidden according to the OLCC (which I have since found out does make exceptions for disability tools, and at the time I had never been held to this in other 21+ spaces). This made me feel like a burden, but there can be a learning curve to entering any new community and we were happy to work with them as long as they return the favor... I tried to make it clear to staff there that if there was any problem they can come to me first, but they would wait until my staff stepped out to use their phone and inform them so they'd have to come back and inform me. It got to the point that they couldn't even tell me to my face that I wasn't wanted there. My staff was told that TVR was within their rights to refuse service (they're not if their only reason is my disability, as that violates discrimination law). When asked why, they first said they couldn't accommodate me, or "take care" of me due to lack of staff. They don't have to take care of me. I have staff. "Well we can't be liable for him." Then what are the liability waivers we just signed for? "It doesn't work that way." And, as of 2 weeks after the incident, I have still not been reimbursed as they promised. I implore anyone with disabilities and their allies to avoid The Velvet Rope at all costs, it is not a safe place for all, as it fails at basic inclusivity read more

This place sucked,creepy guys and no single woman,it has a great website and makes you think it's a higher class joint but it was terrible First time at one of these places and it ruin my experience, not sure if I'll ever go to one of these places again read more

This is an awesome lifestyle club. The staff is great, and the place is huge. Lots of different areas to hang out to suit your liking. 2 Bar areas, and a big dance area. Like any club, depending on the night/theme, will dictate how busy it is. Kink night seems to be the most packed from what I have seen. It is a great place to hang out if you are into the lifestyle or kinky. The staff do a great job of making sure everything is clean, and that the space is safe and comfortable. The prices vary depending on the night/event, but overall seem very reasonable. If you have never been, it is a definite must go to. read more

If i could i would give this place no stars! Literally staff was boring and our tour guide was like here and this and yea didn't make us feel welcome. At the bar highly recommend not drinking the lady who served us made me a cosmo and was stirring it in her shaker then grabbed a plastic cup to shake it after spilling half the drink out. Bartender looked very annoyed and didn't seem to care for us. After walking around eyes were on us made us very uncomfortable like we didn't belong there. You paid what you get and for $40bucks i would say save your money and go to another swinger/social club. (I recommend club privata) On this website pictures were misleading its look nice but once inside it looks terrible and smells terrible. No place to dance no where to really sit if your into bdsm and creepy people go here. Never coming back to this place. read more

Sooo... wow... where do I begin with this place honestly haha. Well first off, my girlfriend and I showed up to this place with high expectations based off what the website promoted the place to be (which btw they should get flagged for false advertisement or something because it did not look like anything they described or showed) despite some of the negative reviews left here by others. We figured meh $25 for the both of us to get in not so bad. Worst case scenario we didn't spent that much for a tour basically. So yeah that being said our night started off fairly well when we were greeted by the two lovely receptionist one who was named adriana and for the like of me cant recall the second ones name but was equally as helpful in letting us know about the rules and things to do in the club so ya velvet rope at least has that going for them in terms of decent staff but sadly that's where it ends.. This place is literally just a hub for old single guys hoping to get their dingalings wet and didn't help we came on a Sunday which was advertised as one of their fun nights considering it was gang bang night which we didn't see much of any gang banging unless you count something we saw in the couples area (also this so called "couples" only and single ladies area is such a joke hahah; the rooms are so cramped and look like run down motel rooms with some of the decor literally falling off the wall.) This place needs to seriously be remodeled though. It feels like a blast from the past with its layout and tacky decorations not to mention the rooms which previously mentioned I've seen better in a crack house back in Compton California where I'm from hah. I will say they did try their best to offer a place where one can come and explore and have fun with their sexuality but the fact that they dont limit the amount of men who can come in (which in all honesty I think they allow so they can make a profit considering it's mostly just old dudes that show up to this place; hardly any couples and hardly anyone around my age range 21-30) which is a bad idea if you ask me. We met another couple there who were there for their first time and they also felt the weird vibe that's offered at this establishment. Luckily they told us about this other adult members only club called Club Privata which I had seen positive reviews for but opted out to give this place a dying chance (big mistake/regret) so if anything we will definitely be checking out that place next even if it is a little pricier then TVR but like they say you get what you paid for. Also they limit the amount of single guys who are allowed to come in to 10 and they charge them a higher entrance fee too! As it should be if you ask me haha because literally the ratio to women there was at least 1 to every 10 guys maybe more not exaggerating we walked into the "gang bang" room where they had pornography playing on a projector screen type deal and it was nothing but old guys sitting shoulder to shoulder waiting for a willing person or woman I should say to helplessly walk in. Anyways I digress, all in all it wasn't too bad of a place if you're looking just for a dingy quick place to fuck or hang out I guess. Staff was attentive at least. The buffet was decent and mediocre but I think that's because I was high off an edible so basically pass unless you're cheap. Tldr: Cheap place for a quick sex session and old creepy men. read more

We haven't done a tour here since it was called Angel's. So we decided to check it out and see what improvements have been made. You can tell they have redone the place, but it's kinda like hiring one of your friends who does some general contractor work. Yeah you can tell some work has been done, but it just doesn't have that "professional" quality look to it. It's an okay place, but I think we've maybe been spoiled by the other well-known swinger place in the Portland area. Seems like it might be a fun place to come with a bunch of friends. read more

Not worth it boring and money hungry owners now. No class at all even though; they want to try and act like it. Not a place for anyone to go try out the others in town. read more

Great place to unwind.... Do you wanted to get your mind off of all the things that happened for the day or even the week.. Come to the VR where they have an awesome staff and amazing owners as well. With 2 hot tubs and 2 pool tables and many many rooms as well. Come dance to the in house DJ and just kick off your shoes and get comfy... read more

Had a really fun time here with my after hours "friends". I work at a strip club, so I often get off work suuuupper late, (2-3 am) and this place is still open! Yay! I can order grub and still socialize. There were a few hot couples there, next time say hi! ..New management is doing a great job with the upgrades. read more

Horrible experience.no class anymore....my friend is a newly single woman & I was taking her for her 1st experience. I was there accidentally on kink night & it smelled horrible they have gone down hill. Seems they let anyone off the streets in. There is no dress code or standards,I was turned off ..gross sweat shop vibe. We had 1 drink & left asked for a refund & was refused.. not friendly staff except bartender .... Manager made excuses for the atmosphere.. ppl were not friendly.. we felt we didn't stay, we didn't play, we shouldn't have to pay,. Never have I had a bad experience when it was Angles & had standards... drove 4 hours there 2 single females...ended up going to privata it was clean nice staff .. safe environment had class read more

Love this place!!! Excellent layout. Fun crowd. Always a fun time when me and the wifey head down. Looking forward to the next visit. The staff is amazing too!! A++++ read more

wife & I went to the VR for the 1st time 9-18-21 , asked for a tour before paying an admission , wife & I where told they couldn't do a tour because of the Pandemic , I asked but we can pay and then do a tour ? YES , so if we don't like the VR we can get a refund ? No ! we paid 70$ for a one night pass ,having been going to Privada for 5 years we can tell you we where not impressed with the VR , it felt cramped and claustrophobic with all the ceilings being so low , the few rooms w doors only had single wide beds ! we definitely have a much better appreciation for Privada, it is such a Classy club, we have heard others say the VR was not very good and now we understand why they said that and will never be going back to the VR, we left there after 2 hrs, the VR is totally lacking class read more

What better time to try out the local sex clubs than when you're on vacation? We saw some of the bad reviews, but decided it was worth it to take a chance and we're glad we did. Staff were friendly and helpful. Happy hour was from 9-10 with $3 off of drinks. That made a Long Island Iced Tea $6. Nice. We started in the lounge. Had a drink, ate some food, chatted up another couple, and sang some karaoke. It was all casual and laid back. There is a wide range of ages and body types at VR; someone told me, "Sesso is for the pretty people." VR has a bit of everything. Walked over to the "big bed" upstairs and saw a gangbang getting started. Husband and wife were getting started and there were a couple more men on the bed with them. Several other single men were there watching and hoping to join in. Most were respectful, but a couple seemed a little creepy. The wife and I decided to play downstairs. She kissed a girl and then we played in the sex swing next to the dance floor. We had a couple other guys join us so we moved to the "exhibitionist" room where you can close the doors, but leave the curtains open. It seems that people enjoyed the show. Afterwards we took a look at the couples area. It's nice that they have an area where only couples, single women, or those they invite are allowed to go. We didn't play in this area, but neither did we see any single men hanging out there as had been mentioned in another review. After thoroughly wearing ourselves out we finished up in the hot tub. It was clean and kept at 102 degrees. At last call we took a quick shower, went back to our hotel, slept well, and have been talking about it ever since. We'll probably go again before we leave and would definitely become members if we lived nearby. I would say that VR is what you make it. It could go great or it could go poorly, but it's mostly going to be up to you. read more

Myself and my husband were first timers here last Saturday. We didn't know what to expect. We were pleasantly surprised by the atmosphere as things got going. We did a tour by Remy who was very helpful and welcoming. Glad we decided to try it out, there was a variety of different people, ages, race, size. The men to women ratio was proportionate, a lot were actually couple. The owner was super nice (Matt) and have a a good deal because we can't in a group.. The only negative is there are different floors which means stairs so wear flats (Lol) and it can get a little confusing if your not used to it but things are well marked. All in all good time and we plan to return. read more

Velvet Rope is to Sesso what Walmart is to Target. they both sell the same product, just to a different demographic.

This venue has always had issues regardless of ownership, but it's really gone downhill the last couple years. I have attended clubs like this for years and rarely found one so crappy, lackluster, and poorly run. Here are somethings you SERIOUSLY NEED TO WORK ON! Customer Service: Last night we paid $24 for Long Islands that clearly had no alcohol in them, just tasted like soda.The bartender hid the drinks under the counter as she made them so we couldn't see what was going in them. A few weeks before we had gotten drinks here and it was a much better experience. I approached the bartender to possibly remedy the crappy drinks in a very nice way and the response I got was "Well, what do you want to do about it?" No offer to correct the issue, only another $8 charge to add a shot to each drink. $34 for two drinks that barely tasted like they had alcohol in them. I should have asked for my money back. Food: The food here is consistently horrible. Even if you arrive earlier on in the evening the food is overcooked and looks like it's been out forever. Or it's all gone by 10 and never refilled. Just don't offer food if it's that hard for you to provide decent food that won't make people sick. Security: There are no dedicated people working security to make sure that women feel safe here. We were approached/followed around by a creepy guy for quite a while last night and he could not take the hint that I wasn't interested. I am able to say I'm not interested, and I did. But it would have been nice if a staff member had been around to see his jumpy, creepy vibe affecting people and done something about it. He continued to try and engage with me and put his dick in my range of vision multiple times after I made it clear I wasn't interested. Cleanliness: After more than 20 visits over the last couple years, I have NEVER seen volunteers or staff members walking through the club to ensure that things are being kept clean, or that sheets and towels were restocked. Shelves are usually empty. A sign stating when the hot tub was last cleaned would make me more likely to want to sit in it. Theme Nights: Why have a themed evening like Prom Night or Beach Party if you don't encourage your staff or customers to dress up and/or participate. You need to do better at providing an exciting themed environment with music/decorations/drinks to match your theme. Or just don't do it at all. It doesn't count to just post it online. NO SEX! This isn't necessarily the fault of the owners and staff, but I think the crappy environment is part of the issue. We rarely see people actually having sex here. Rarely there will be a gangbang situation or a couple having some fun in the couples area. Most of the time tho it's just people walking around staring at each other. read more

We love coming here the staff very freindly and there is never any pressure members are very laid back and down to earth,after all we are all there for the same reason me and lady freind have such fun we wish it was open more days in the week. read more