So, our wedding is over. The planning is done, the pictures are in (see my review of Natalie Kardos, It's Too Sunny Out Here), the honeymoon has ended, and here we contemplating what a wonderful event we had.
We owe so much of the event's success to Francine. There is absolutely no way we could have done it without her. She was instrumental to us on so many levels, for so many things! People who have never been married just can't imagine all of the details that go into such an event. You think you know, you think you understand, but it's truly overwhelming and having someone like Francine on your team is priceless.
Steven and I are strong headed and we had very exact ideas of what we wanted. Francine gracefully took in our thoughts and turned them into concrete plans. She saw what we were asking for and made it work. We wanted each table to have an individual cake as part of the centerpiece - that's as far as I had thought. Get the cake, get the stand. Not Francine! She saw things like when will the knives/servers come out? Cake plates? How will people know when to cut the cake? How will you handle it if someone digs in too early? Francine's detailed mind saw what I wanted and made it reality, by understanding all of the details surrounding what i thought was something simple.
The whole event was like that! Francine saw things in a way that Steven and i didn't, even though he and i are fairly detail-oriented. Francine knows that i don't drink champagne so she had my favorite iced coffee drink on my table in a champagne flute for toasts. she knows that brides sometimes fall apart so she had a 4-piece Bridal Emergency Kit in the bridal suite - tylenol, tape, deodorant, tic tacs, band aids, scissors, hair gel, nail polish, hair pins, safety pins, paper and pen...no girl scout or boy scout is that prepared.
Francine also handled our vendors. we didn't have to worry about a thing on the day! she handed over checks if needed. she coordinated time schedules (you should see her minute-by-minute excel time frame that we all got prior to the big day!) and most importantly she was in constant contact with the venue to make sure that everything was exactly what we wanted. if we weren't sure about something - tradition, policy, ceremony, etiquette, anything! - Francine knew. she knew, and she interpreted, and she read between the lines. she worked serious magic, and we appreciate every little thing that she had her hands on. the event was polished, perfect, smooth, seamless, timeless, classy, and exactly the day that Steven and i had wanted. how many brides can say that?
I've had quite a few in my immediate circle get married recently and each and every one has a complaint about something. one girl's father is still complaining about the many-thousand-dollar "wedding nazi" that they hired, who didn't do 1/4 of the things that Francine did. that same father called us after the wedding to thank us and express how much fun he had at the event.
you plan, you dream, you think you know what you're in for on your wedding day. no one really has any idea what actually happens until you do it. i am here to happily tell you that the feeling you get from your wedding day is not something you'll ever feel again. i look back on the day and i think "it was perfect." no flubs, no mistakes, nothing was omitted. Francine was there, like a safety net, like a rappelling harness, like a parachute. she caught whatever was wrong and fixed it. she supported, encouraged, assisted, and suggested every step of the way. we had email flurries that she handled with grace and good humor, even when we were too stressed to be polite. we had last minute ideas that she deflected or modified without missing a beat.
Francine's connections (photographers, florists, venues) combined with her abilities make her the resource of all resources. if she doesn't know, she'll find out. if she can't find out, it doesn't exist.
Steven and i can't thank her enough. thank you, Francine! thank you! read more