There are no words for what this place meant to me on the worst day of my life. I walked into Los…read moreAngeles Pet Memorial Park and Crematorium on what was, without question, the most devastating day of my entire life. Just after midnight, I lost my beloved Tommy--my beautiful boy, my companion, and my emotional support animal of 16 years. He had passed away at the emergency hospital after an incredibly aggressive cancer took him from me within days. I wasn't ready. I had spent nearly seven days barely sleeping or eating, watching my baby become so sick and knowing there was nothing I could do to save him. His CT scan revealed that the cancer had spread throughout his body, including his brain,mouth, hip, leg muscle, chest, and abdomen. It happened so quickly that I barely had time to comprehend what was happening. I knew one thing with absolute certainty: I was not going to leave my baby alone in a cold, unfamiliar hospital freezer. There was no dignity in that for my boy. I brought Tommy home in the beautiful white cardboard casket the hospital had placed him in. I spent one last night with his physical body in his home--our home--and at 7:00 that morning, I drove to Los Angeles Pet Memorial Park in Calabasas. I was exhausted beyond words, my eyes swollen and red from crying, and I could barely speak through my grief. And then I met Stacy. I sat down and tried my best to explain what had happened to Tommy, sobbing through nearly every word. Stacy didn't rush me. She listened. She was warm, gentle, compassionate, and incredibly empathetic. She even cried with me as I told her about my boy. Then Stacy told me something I will never forget: they were going to help me bring Tommy home that same day.
I had arrived without an appointment, needing an immediate private cremation. Stacy told me they would do everything possible to fit Tommy into their schedule--and they did.She gently walked me through every step and showed me the memorial keepsakes they offered: clay and ink paw prints, jewelry, urns, and more. She asked if I wanted clippings of Tommy's hair. Of course I did. I wanted anything that could keep a piece of my baby with me. Then Stacy paged one of their technicians, Angel. Angel prepared Tommy's clay and ink paw prints, took hair clippings, and prepared him for his private cremation. Knowing that I would receive Tommy's ashes and Tommy's alone was extremely important to me, and Los Angeles Pet Memorial Park performs private cremations. Stacy also asked if we would like to accompany Angel to the crematorium area. We couldn't be directly beside the chamber, but we could clearly see the area where Tommy would be cared for. Angel later picked us up in a golf cart and drove us to the crematorium. I had been afraid this part would feel frightening or cold, but instead it was peaceful and serene. I felt at peace and knew my Tommy was in the right place. We were then invited to walk through their beautiful gardens and memorial park while Tommy's cremation took place. We could reflect, cry, remember, and simply be with our thoughts. When we returned to the office, Stacy carefully prepared the memorial jewelry I had chosen: a beautiful cross necklace with paw prints and a gold circle pendant with a cat. Both now contain a portion of my baby's ashes, so I can carry him close to my heart forever. From the time I arrived at approximately 8:00 that morning until I left with Tommy, the entire process took only a couple of hours. I cannot express what that meant to me. Other places may require families to wait 7-14 days to receive their pet's ashes. I simply could not imagine leaving my Tommy somewhere for that long.
I needed my boy home. Because of Stacy, Angel, and Los Angeles Pet Memorial Park, I was able to bring my baby home that same day. Being able to see Tommy, hold him, kiss him, tell him goodbye, and know that he was being treated with dignity meant more to me than I could ever put into words. On the worst day of my life, when absolutely nothing felt right anymore, this place gave me one thing I desperately needed: They helped me bring my boy home. Los Angeles Pet Memorial Park wasn't simply a crematorium to me that day. It was a place of peace, dignity, and compassion. It was a Godsend. Stacy was a Godsend. Angel was a Godsend. Thank you, Stacy, for listening to me, crying with me, and treating Tommy and my grief with such incredible tenderness.
Thank you, Angel, for caring for my boy so gently and respectfully, and for creating the beautiful paw prints and memories I will treasure forever. And thank you to everyone at Los Angeles Pet Memorial Park and Crematorium for allowing me to take my Tommy home with me that very same day.
My Tommy was loved beyond the depth of any ocean. He was my sunshine, my brightest light for 16 years. And because of you, Stacy and Angel, when I left that morning, my baby was coming home with Mommy. For that, I will be eternally grateful. Thank you from the bottom of my heart.